Jealous woman makes snide comments about pregnant sister’s health at her baby shower, she gets kicked out on the spot: “This is what happens when you’re old and pregnant!”

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    AITAH for kicking my sister out of my baby shower because she called me old and selfish ?

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    My sister (F,31) and I (F,34) married around the same time 7 years ago. She decided to have kids right away. My husband (M,35) and I decided to buy a house first, do a little travelling and have enough savings before having kids. My sister now has 4 kids.
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    I'm currently pregnant with our baby. I have been dealing with hyperemesis gravidarum (HG) and it's been brutal. Luckily my MIL and my husband have been amazing to me and my boss allowed me to work from home until I give birth. My mom can't help me much because she helps out my sister's 4 kids a lot.
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    Yesterday was my baby shower that my SIL threw for me, people kept asking about how I was doing and I was talking about how HG is horrible. My sister decided to interrupt me and said " honestly! This is what happens when you get pregnant when you are old! I have had 4 pregnancies and never had these issues. I guess you should
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    have thought about this before all those trips and "we are not ready yet" bulls . Some of us made sacrifices in our 20's ". I got furious This wasn't the first time she commented about my life so I told her to get the f out. She grabbed my nieces and left.
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    My mom said I was being hormonal and should have just ignored her. My mom thinks my sister said that because she became a mom earlier than me and never enjoyed her life or even any alone time with her husband. My husband thinks I had every right to be upset because she was saying I deserve HG. Do I owe my sister an apology for kicking her out?
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    Longjumping-Set6... • 17h ago Nope. NTA. Sis is clearly just jealous and can't handle it. Glad you have great in-laws to support you, while you deal with a garbage sister and a mom that can't support you.
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    Imaginary-Yak-6487 17h ago NTA & HG doesn't care & has nothing to do with when you get pregnant or how many pregnancies someone has had. She was fortunate not to experience it. Each pregnancy is different. She can f off some more.
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    Sparkyand Dolche ⚫ 17h ago You're only 34. She's an ah le.
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    ConfusedAt63 • 17h ago NTA, your sister is jealous and that is all there is to it. You chose a different path, enjoyed yourself and she prob has some regrets.
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    EffectiveSet4534 • 17h ago Oof. She's hateful. I love how mom blamed your reaction on hormones... so what was the sister's excuse? ④
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    No_Cockroach4248 • 17h ago Your sister is jealous. NTA, your sister was r de and you had every right to kick her out
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    lexiik191 17h ago NTA. I don't think that you were being hormonal I just think you finally had enough. Kudos to you honestly! Don't let people treat you that way. even if they are family.
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    I do think that what your mom said about your sister at the end is correct though. In short, she's jealous because you had fun while she was stuck raising her kids. Now that you're ready for that next phase of your life she had to try and find something to bring you down so that she
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    could be, in her mind, better than you. A better mom than you. You and your husband chose the responsible route to parenthood whereas she has probably had to struggle and give up most her free time in her 20s.
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    Your sister is TA for berating you over something you can't control. Her only concern should be your and your babies health. Not some competition that you aren't even participating in
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    Fire_or_water_kai • 17h ago ΝΤΑ Pure jealousy and projection. She's mad she gave up her twenties, and you now have attention. Your mom sks too.
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    Also, HG s ks so bad. I had that for 6 months of my pregnancy. Hope it eases up for you.
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    Shot_Tie2761 . 17h ago Your sister is an a hle and your mom an enabler
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    MaxBax_LArch • 17h ago NTA. Being hormonal? I wouldn't tolerate that at any time.
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    BTW, I had my first baby when I was 25. I nearly ended up. hospitalized to get IV fluids I was throwing up so much. A friend of mine (a whooping 20 days younger than me) didn't have her first until her late 30s. Her "morning sickness" wasn't nearly as bad. How pregnancy hits you is highly
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    individual and age is only one small part of it. At 34, you're not even considered a "geriatric" first-time mom. Plenty of women start later than you did.

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