Boss blames pregnant employee after manager steals her lunch, gets an allergic reaction, and faces no consequences: I got a verbal warning, I don't get how I'm the bad guy but a literal thief gets away with stealing’

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Feb 13, 2025 9:00 AM EST

The office kitchen is a dusty, lawless frontier where the only currency is leftovers, and the only rules are hastily scribbled post-its stuck to lunchboxes like ignored street signs in a ghost town. "DO NOT EAT" or "PROPERTY OF KAREN" might as well say "free for the taking" to the outlaws of this fridge frontier.

Because let's be honest, the kind of person who steals a clearly labeled sandwich isn't about to be deterred by a brightly colored square of paper.

Lunch thieves are the bandits of this wild west, pillaging fridges with no regard for decency or ownership. One particularly brazen outlaw targeted a pregnant employee, swiping her lunches week after week as if the fridge were their personal saloon. First went the sandwiches. Then the drinks. Even bits of leftovers weren't safe. With every theft, the fridge-town sheriff, who definitely wasn't paying attention, failed to act, leaving her to fend for herself, hungry and increasingly enraged.

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  • "AITA I got a warning at work because I tried to catch the person who kept stealing my lunch and it turned out to be my manager. She got a reaction and had to go to the hospital."

    "I told her that it's her own fault for stealing other people's food"
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  • I work at a family owned company and I'm also pregnant. have been having issues with someone stealing my lunch. In the beginning, it wasn't as ofte. I just chalked it up to it being an honest mistake. Someone could have confused my lunch with
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  • theirs. But no, it just continued happening more and more. I started putting my name on it, writing passive aggressive notes on it but that didn't help. I would still find my lunchbox empty, sometimes they would just have a few bites and leave the rest. Even my half drink drinks were finished off.
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  • When the post-its proved useless, the employee did what any frontier hero would do—she set a trap. A cayenne pepper-filled decoy lunch, spiced with just enough heat to send a message. And send a message it did. The thief turned out to be the manager, who ended up in the hospital with an allergic reaction and somehow managed to play the victim. Justice wasn’t served. Instead, the employee got a verbal warning while the manager rode off into the fridge sunset, no consequences in sight.

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  • They were relentless and it would happen a couple of times a week. I was at my wit's end because 1. I'm extra hungry because of the pregnancy 2. I am on a really tight budget so I can't even afford to replace the food,
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  • meaning I have to work on an empty stomach for my whole shift and this completely enraged me. I even cried a couple of times in the bathroom because of this. It didn't happen to just me but it felt like I was targeted a lot for some reason.
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  • I made a decoy lunch which I put a sh load of cayenne pepper because that's the worst thing I had in my cabinet and I didn't want to hurt them. I don't like spicy food so I never really use it.
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  • I took the food to work the following day and put it in the fridge but it was still there at the end of my shift so I took it home and brought it back the next day.
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  • Sure enough it was stolen and an hour ish later, there was some commotion. The manager was sick and stuck in the toilet for a while, her throat swelled up, she even had to go to the hospital. Turns out she had an allergic
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  • reaction. When she came back she blamed me because she obviously knew exactly whose food she ate and I told her that it's her own fault for stealing
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  • other people's food. Even after telling my side of the story to her boss, I got a verbal warning and apparently I got off lightly. Nothing happened to the manager.
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  • I don't get how I'm the bad guy for messing with MY own food but a literal thief gets away with stealing.
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  • BreakingUp47 NTA. "You know, ever since I became pregnant, I have been having these super hard cravings for cayenne pepper."
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  • LTK622 NTA. Your only mistake was being honest about your motives. Next time, you gotta pretend you wanted spicy food, and didn't know anybody allergic would try to share it. Save your honesty for home.
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  • virtualchoirboy NTA. Go to HR and file a complaint that your managers actions have potentially harmed your developing fetus due to not being able to eat regular meals. Make it a medical
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  • issue, not a property issue. Separately, talk to your OB doctor about getting a prescription for liquid prenatal multivitamins. Add the required daily dose to
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  • your food. Then, if your food is stolen or tampered with again, another complaint to HR about your prescription medication being stolen/altered.
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  • RobZagnut2 Document, document, document... Document each time your lunch was stolen AND how much it cost to replace. Nobody cares about a lunch or two missing. Once you put a dollar value to it, HR
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  • can see how much it costs and now there's a dollar value associated with the thefts. Your manager could say, "I mistakenly took the wrong lunch."
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  • But, if you document and show proof you can say, "It happened these 21 times on these days and cost me $200 to replace as I had no food to eat as it was stolen. I would like to be reimbursed my $200 or I'm going to file a police report for the theft of my property."
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  • dacaur The only mistake you made was admitting it was a decoy lunch. NTA "You side of the story" should have been "well that was my lunch, why did they eat it?"
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  • ncjr591 Tell your boss's boss, that you like cayenne pepper and if she's allergic then she should eat her own food. Then tell them you expect to be reimbursed for all the food she stole and that you may need to report her to the authorities for theft.
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  • KingSuperJon Always proudly introduce her as a thief to everyone you see.
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  • fbombmom_ NTA. My pregnancy made my manager flip her sh. She harassed me, had a co- worker follow me, and she tried to frame me for something I didn't do. This resulted in an EEOC suit.
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  • Your manager may have some mental health issues. Mine had untreated BPD. The irony was that we were friends before. She even came to my wedding.
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  • In this wild west of microwaves and mystery Tupperware, the lesson is clear. Respect isn’t on the menu, and the only consistency in this lawless land is that the post-it rules will always get ignored. Another day, another untouched post-it flapping in the wind.

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