‘This ring was left to ME’: Sister refuses to give up a precious heirloom ring she inherited from Grandma so that her brother can propose with ‘something sentimental,’ delulu parents side with the Golden Child

Good grandparents leave behind fond memories for their grandkids. Great grandparents leave behind a legacy of wisdom and lasting impressions that'll withstand the sands of time for their family. But every so often, grandparents want to leave their loved ones with more than just their memory or their legacy—they want to leave behind a physical embodiment of their lifetime. That token of their love—that heirloom— is always more valuable than any trinket money can buy because it's the thing they chose to leave to YOU.

Nobody can take that inheritance away from you, not even your cheap, selfish younger brother and his clueless future fiancé.

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  • Golden Children don't realize when they're being total snobs. Growing up as the mature sibling in the family, I've found that chronic GCs expect the whole world to bend to their whim, yielding their belongings to appease the rampant entitlement. Well, this young woman, who was still grieving the loss of her beloved mentor and grandmother, refused to let her Golden Child brother step all over her. 

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  • WAITA for refusing to give up my grandmother's engagement ring for my brother's proposal? So, this has turned into a huge family fight, and I need to know if I'm in the wrong here.
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  • My grandmother left me her engagement ring in her will. It's a beautiful vintage piece, very sentimental to me, because I was extremely close with her growing up. I've kept it safely stored for years.
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  • Here's where things get messy: My older brother (30M) is planning to propose to his girlfriend (28F) and recently asked if he could have our grandmother's ring. He said it would mean a lot to him to keep it in the family, and that his girlfriend loves vintage rings.
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  • I told him no. This ring was left to me, and I intend to either keep it or use it for myself someday. He got really upset, saying I was being selfish and that it's "just sitting in a box" while he has an actual use for it. My parents
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  • sided with him, saying that as the eldest, it should have gone to him anyway, and that I'm being difficult for no reason. Things escalated when my brother said I was "hoarding" the ring out of spite
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  • and that I should want it to stay in the family. I told him I do-it's staying with me. Now, he's barely speaking to me, and my parents keep texting me about how hurt he is. AITA for refusing to give up the ring?
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  • cryssHappy You are NTA. I'm 70 f and a grandma. What I give to one grandchild is for that grandchild. Your brother is cheap. It is YOUR ring. KEEP IT!
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  • UPDATE

    here's what's happened since my original post: A few days after the argument, my parents invited me over for dinner, saying they wanted to "talk things through." I was skeptical but went anyway. Surprise, surprise-it was a
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  • setup. My brother and his girlfriend were both there, and the whole thing turned into an ambush. His girlfriend (who, by the way, had no idea about the drama) was super sweet and kept saying things like, "Oh, I don't want to take anything from you! I just loved the idea of
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  • something sentimental." So now I was the bad guy for making a big deal out of it. My parents kept pushing, my brother was sulking, and I was basically being guilt-tripped into handing over something that was willed to me. I stood my ground and told them all that the
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  • conversation was over. My brother then tried to compromise by saying, "Well, what if I borrow it just for the proposal and the wedding, and then you can have it back?" Nope. Not happening. Then, the real kicker: I found out from my aunt
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  • (my dad's sister) that my grandmother explicitly left the ring to me because she knew my parents would pressure me to give it to my brother. Apparently, she saw this whole mess coming and wanted to make sure I got something
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  • special of hers. When I told my parents this, my mom got really quiet, and my dad just said something like, "Well, she probably didn't mean to cause this kind of divide." At this point, I'm done with the whole conversation. My brother is
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  • still barely speaking to me, my parents are acting like I've personally ruined their lives, but honestly? I don't care anymore. I have the ring, it was left to me, and I'm keeping it. Thanks again for all the advice. Definitely don't feel like the AH anymore.
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  • Smitty-TBR2430 NTA Your grandmother was a wise lady. You also. Enjoy that ring all your life.
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  • Shichimi88 Keep that ring secure in a secret place or safety deposit box. Don't let your family alone with it.
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  • GoddessfromCyprus Well done. She left it to you because she knew you deserved it and if she could see what has happened since, she'd see she was proven right.
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  • nca369 NTA and you should wear it :) I have an expensive ring that was gifted to me by my sons grandmother and I didn't wear it for years because I thought it was too fancy. Finally I said eff it. I want to enjoy it now. So I wear it almost every day and it's beautiful and IDGAF :)
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