Sister demands brother loan her $10k to help fund her wedding, his fiancée refuses, claiming the money must go to their own wedding: ‘We’ve worked really hard’

When a couple gets engaged, one of the biggest challenges that usually comes with that happy occasion is saving enough money to actually be able to pay for a wedding. Weddings are extremely expensive, even if you are willing to settle for a small event. The basics alone – a venue, wedding dress, suits, photographer, and catering- are enough to have the happy couple start their lives together with a big debt, and who wants that?

What do engaged couples usually do to avoid sinking into wedding loans? They save money. They cut expenses, give up on dates, work hard, and save every dollar they can to afford the wedding of their dreams. It's not an easy task whatsoever, and for some, it takes years to reach their goal, but for the perfect wedding, it is well worth it, if you ask us.

Unfortunately, sometimes unexpected surprises might set the couple a few steps back in their wedding journey. That is when they have to make a choice, just like the couple in the story below tried to do.

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The woman who wrote this story has been saving up for her wedding for the last two years. She and her fiancé have been working really hard to reach their goal, but it all might be crushed because of the fiancé's sister. This sister decided to get married herself, but she expects her entire family to help her pay for the wedding, including the happy couple who are still trying to save up for their own.
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AITAH for refusing to let my fiancé give his sister $10k for her wedding?

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