‘I didn’t want to fund a dream built on TikTok’: Gen X dad threatens to stop paying for his 19-year-old daughter's college education after finding out she lied about her ‘Content Creation’ major, sparks debate online about modern parenting

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Jesse Kessenheimer • Writer and Editor
May 19, 2025 5:00 PM EDT

30 years ago, if you told an established, educated businessman that employees could be sitting at home in their pajama pants, hopping on conference calls with their CEO, and raking in $200k per year, they probably would have laughed in your face. Over the last several decades, success—and the path to reach it—has changed drastically with the introduction of commonplace computers, the internet, and social media. 

Things have profoundly changed, but this Gen X dad was stuck in his ways when it came to his daughter's college education. While a parent who's capable of bankrolling their child's 6-figure university education should have a bit of a say in how they tackle their course-load, being downright ignorant of societal shifts in educational practices is just closed-minded. Parenting has changed a lot over the years, and ultimately most parents just want their kid's to be happy, comfortable, and pleased with their lives, so while this father's intentions were good, he missed the point of his daughter's 'Digital Content Creation' major, refusing to believe that TikTok or any other social platform could be a lucrative avenue for a real career. 

This again, sir!

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  • "AITAH for not paying for my daughter’s college because she lied about her major?"

    I (48M) have always promised my daughter (19F) that I'd pay for her college as long as she was serious and honest. We agreed I'd cover tuition for any major
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  • except "social media influencer- related nonsense" (her words, not mine) because I didn't want to fund a dream built on TikTok.
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  • She told me she was majoring in Communications, and I've been paying her tuition at an out-of- state school. I just found out she changed her major after her first
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  • semester to something called "Digital Content Creation" and didn't tell me. She's been making videos of herself doing makeup reviews, hauls, and "day in my life" vlogs.
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  • When I confronted her, she said it's her dream and I should support it. I told her I won't pay for next semester unless she switches back or finds another way to pay.
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  • She called me controlling and said I "lied" about supporting her dreams. Now my ex-wife is furious with me and thinks I'm crushing our daughter's future over semantics. AITAH?
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  • dirty8man I laughed at digital marketing too until I realized what my last four companies have paid people just to run our linkedin account.
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  • Certain_Host9401 I'm a 50 year old tech sales guy. If I told my dad 30 years ago that I was going to sit in my pajamas and talk to people over video calls, with an occasional expensive dinner
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  • and some travel- and make $500k a year- he would have had me committed. My point is- our kids are going
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  • to make money in ways that we can't comprehend. Hopefully that social media/content degree also includes accounting, finance and marketing classes.
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  • tylersixxfive Just gonna say... you do realize pretty much every company has a social media person now
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  • Grouchy Candle_24... Digital content creation is not a degree in TikTok if that's what you think
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  • No-Information-6099 That's just a type of Communications degree. 'Content Creation' sounds like mumbo jumbo to GenXers like me, but it's a real job and just as marketable as a traditional Comms degree.
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  • JustAnotherK8Lady I'm an academic advisor so I've got some notes for you Digital Content Creation sounds like a concentration of a communications major
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  • A program like that would make your daughter very competitive in marketing as communication is a common major alternative for those that don't want to drink the MBA kool aid
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  • Goonacles You realize a lot of companies hire people who specialize in social media right? It's a very realistic job to attain.
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  • ragingfather42069. I'm your age and our mindset is different. That degree is way helpful in the future probably. And she's your kid, help her while she needs it.
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  • benwinnner • You are using your money to try to control your daughter. Yes you are the AH. Her major is likely communications refined. Reflect, are you controlling in other ways as well?
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  • ThealaSildorian ⚫ YTA. Before getting upset you should have taken time to find out what this major actually is. It's not about her making a living with Tik Tok videos. It's about all
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  • aspects of digital film creation, web design, a bunch of stuff. This is not a major in becoming an influencer. This is a major about the tools influencers ... and major advertisers ... use, how to use them, how to make a living using them.
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  • Her intro courses focus on things she already likes to do. It'll get harder and more tedious later. It may not be what she ... and def isn't what you ... think.
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  • However, the basic skills transfer to many other fields in the entertainment industry, advertising, marketing, etc so if she's good at it, she can make a good living doing this.
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