Mom bans 16-year-old daughter from spring break trip with her 17 and 18-year-old friends: 'She's convinced the internet will be on her side'

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Remy Millisky • Writer and Editor
May 23, 2025 11:00 AM EDT

Sending a 16-year-old on spring break is just asking for trouble! At that age, you can't rent a hotel room or a car for yourself, and if you get into trouble, you'll need Mom and Dad to come pick you up. You tend to do whatever your friends do, and depending on your group of friends, that could totally spell out trouble. 

This Mom is unsure if she should let her 16-year-old go on a spring break trip with a few 17 and 18-year-olds. She insists that she's already said no to her daughter, but the kid claims that the internet will take her side. Well… you'll have to keep scrolling to see how that's going for her. 

Next, read about the 24-year-old vegan who spent 20 years avoiding meat, only to have to call the police on her friends after they "pranked" her into eating it: 'My sister sent me a message telling me to check my friend's Snap story'

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    "AITA For not letting my 16 year old go on spring break without adult supervision?"

    I (40f) have a 16-year-old daughter who wants to go on a spring break trip with 3 of her friends, 2 18-year-olds and 1 17 year old. it's roughly a 12 Hour Drive and there would be no adult supervision going with them. I
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    have explained to her it's not about not trusting her. It's about not trusting everybody else in the surrounding she would be around. I have already said no, and that won't change, but she's convinced that the Internet will
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    be on her side, and I'm not being fair. so while the answer will still be now, I told her I would hear out the Internet parents/college age kids that will agree with me and explain she shouldn't be going on a spring break trip at 16.
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    Sad-Concentrat... NTA - I was a VERY responsible 16yo and I still wouldn't trust a cluster of perfect copies of myself
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    BuilderWide1961 Absolutely not, she is 16. She can do spring break when she is college herself
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    shammy_dammy That's a hol no. NTA
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    There are plenty of examples that this mom could show her daughter... not that her daughter would necessarily feel better about the decision

    A. NTA Big Nope. When she is 18 she can go, or at least it's a discussion to have. Sit her down to watch a Natalie Holloway documentary. Just no. It's not about her and you should tell her that. There are just so many human that don't care about destroying lives out there.
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    Part of being a parent is just doing what you have to do, even if your kid really dislikes it. That's why you tell them, "You'll understand when you're older!"

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    Only kids would fail to understand the consequences...

    Punt_Man YTA - Nearly everyone ages 14-19. NTA - Nearly everyone else.
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    No_Mention_1760 A parent here who raised a child into adulthood. NTA! All their whining and protestations aside, 16 year olds are not mature enough to be off without adult supervision. Case closed.
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