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Some commenters made good points. Does the man know why his mother decided not to tell his father about the pregnancy? Was he a good man? Was she in danger? Though these are all questions that are valid, one thing remains true: Withholding the truth about your kid's parent is not protecting them. It is hurting them in the long run. 
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            "AITAH for not financially helping my mum after finding out a secret she kept from me for over 20 years?"
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