'I never wanted the cat': Grad student frustrated after 29-year-old roommate impulsively adopts a cat, leaving her to deal with common area catastrophes

This grad student is stuck in a real catastrophe with her roommate who impulsively adopted a cat without proper discussion. At first, she thought he was joking about getting a cat, but weeks later she came home to find a feline friend wreaking their shared space. The kitty's constant vomiting and damage to furniture are driving everyone up the wall, especially since the roommate is neglecting basic care. No vet visits, no grooming, and even using her personal kitchen bowl for the cat's water.

Despite her efforts to set boundaries, like asking him to keep the cat in his room to contain the mess, he refuses and brushes off her concerns. Adding insult to injury, he assumed silence meant consent when she never actually agreed to the adoption. This poor student is caught between being polite and protecting her living space, all while dealing with a roommate who isn't taking responsibility.

It's a classic case of "cat got your tongue?" but instead of cute cuddles, it's cat chaos. Hopefully, some honest communication and shared responsibility can turn this feline fiasco around before they all claw each other's eyes out!

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Those extra costs should definitely come out of that roommate’s pocket. It’s not fair to make others pay for the damage caused by a cat they didn’t agree to bring home.
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Ouch, friendship shredded like a scratching post! Cats are cuddly, but they’re a big responsibility. It’s totally unfair to surprise roommates with one and expect them to deal with the fallout.
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Sounds like it’s time for a roommate roundtable. Everyone needs to sit down, talk openly about the cat situation, and figure out a fair plan before the fur really starts flying!
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