Irresponsible college student dumps cat at [ex] boyfriend's dorm before going on vacation, BF steps up to the plate for the fluffy feline: 'She had no financial or physical capacity for a cat'

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    "Was babysitting my gf's cat while she was on vacation. We sort of broke up midway and she doesn't want the cat anymore..."

    Well this is a rather complicated situation. Me and my girlfriend are currently freshmen at different colleges. At the start of the school year, she started to really, really want a cat despite my telling her that she had no. financial or physical capacity for a cat because 1. shes broke 2. she lives in a small college dorm.
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    Anyways, she didn't listen to me and last month we got this cat. She's been primarily taking care of it, but when during breaks or whatever when she travels with her family I've been babysitting it at my dorm. Of course she complained about her responsibilities and duties as a cat owner and the hassle that comes with ownership, not like I didn't tell her that beforehand.
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    She's away on vacation and while I was babysitting the cat, we got into a pretty heated argument leading to a breakup. She says that I can keep the cat and that she no longer wants it.
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    Don't get me wrong, this cat has grown on me since we got it, but I am in no situation to take care of this cat. Living in the dorms, the cat barely has enough space for himself and I know the whole moving from one dorm to the other (our colleges are an hour car ride apart), sometimes to my house, etc can be stressful for the cat.
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    What's the best way to ensure this little thing gets to a nice home?
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    Nyararagi-san ⚫ Was the cat adopted from a shelter by chance? If so, I would give them a call and explain the situation. Even if the cat isn't from a rescue, I think this situation is definitely an appropriate time to contact a rescue.
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    GusAndLeo • Yes, this is a good point. Many shelters and rescues stipulate that if the cat is no longer wanted, it needs to be returned there.
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    Alternate Reality 5926 · 21h ago . It's alright if you don't want to keep the cat. There are so many comments suggesting leaving the cat at your house, leash training, or even getting financial help. All great advice, take them only if you REALLY want to keep the cat. It can be a commitment of 12-20 years or more. It's better to get in touch with local shelters and rehome the cat than giving it a poor quality of life. Cats are aloof but single ones don't do well if they're left alone for long pe
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    Cheap-Bell9640 . Be glad your relationship with someone who can so easily abandon a living thing is over before you got too deep. You should find a way to keep the cat
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    • mikehippo 20h ago Spot on. Anyone that could treat a cat like that is trash, good riddance. You seem like a decent chap trying to do the right thing, the very best of luck to you.
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    "Here’s the little cutie in question!"

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    Comfortable_Bat3124 13h ago Beautiful cat! Look into free spay/neuter and vaccination clinics! There may be one near you.
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    pwolf1111 23h ago I think rehoming is the best bet. I think it is a mature decision and puts the cats needs first. The cat is going to spray everywhere. Look into low cost clinics near you.
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    ApocalypticTomato • 19h ago Every year when the college kids go home, they dump pets they never should have had. It's infuriating. I'm p at your ex gf, and sorry for what is now your cat. At least you aren't ditching it in a field. Contact your local shelters. Someone should be able to help. It'll still be traumatized and I...am I at your ex
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    • Super_RN 23h ago Please take the cat. Your dorm is a hundred times better than a small cage at a shelter. A litterbox, a food bowl, water bowl, cat scratcher and cat bed is all you need. Cats are not disposable. Your ex is an a-hole for just abandoning the cat like it's no big deal.
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    • brokenheartedaughter 15h ago This feels like divine intervention. Name the cat lucky and thank god you got a furever friend instead of a nightmare girlfriend.
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    juen1234 . 1d ago A dorm is a million times bigger than a 4x3 cage with a bunch of other smelly and loud animals around which will happen if he goes back to a shelter. Just make sure he has clean water, food, soft places to lay, a window, a scratching post, some toys, and a clean litterbox.
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    Coyote Petard • 23h ago I think a dorm could be an okay home for a cat, and car rides can be stressful but they'll get used to it, and you could use a little cbd if it was way too stimulating. But it sounds like you kinda might want to keep him, just the way your talking bout the little guy. This could have been meant to happen. And as for "her", you dodged a bullet bro! Can't believe she's willing to just up and abandon both of ya. Shame on her.

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