22-year-old dumps her 27-year-old boyfriend after funding his expensive Miami boys’ trip: ‘He’s tossing cash, flashing MY money like he’s Drake. He didn’t even mention me in any of it. No “thanks,” no check-in text’

If there's one thing more reliable than a Miami nightclub's dress code, it's the uncanny ability of certain men to mistake their girlfriend's generosity for a no-strings-attached sponsorship. Here we have Exhibit A: a 22-year-old tech professional footing the bill for her boyfriend's "boys' trip" on the condition that, you know, he show a modicum of gratitude, basic decency, and maybe not act like Lil Wayne on her dime.

But why settle for a thank you text when you can get the VIP treatment—watching your hard-earned money rain down on South Beach strippers while your boyfriend and his squad treat you like a debit card with feelings? But his number 1 hit is his response to any confrontation: a masterclass in Modern Boy Math—"Babe, it's just a vibe. Why you stressing?" Ah, yes, the emotional Venmo request: priceless.

Instead of staying silent and letting the disrespect pile up, she puts her foot down and ends things, making it clear she will not bankroll someone's "vibes" at the expense of her own self-worth. No apologies and no second-guessing; she calls out his behavior for exactly what it is and refuses to let anyone, least of all a pack of freeloading hype men, guilt her into thinking she is the problem. While they lament the loss of their meal ticket, she moves forward, proud she chose her standards over squad approval and ready to spend her money and her energy on people who actually appreciate it.

AITAH for breaking up with my boyfriend after I paid for everything on his “boys' trip”?

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