Hair salon owner offers to train friend's daughter for free after finding out they can't afford cosmetology school, the mom demands money instead: ‘If you want to help, give me money’

When we were kids, we were always taught that being a good friend meant that you would be there for each other, to always offer a helping hand when they are in times of need. You are taught that friends do whatever they can to lift their loved ones off the ground, and that mantra becomes one of the most valuable guidelines to every friendship out there.

Except, no one actually tells you that friendships are a lot more complicated than that. 

Growing up you learn, usually the hard way, that most friendships do not follow this guideline whatsoever. Offering a helping hand to someone else, even though it is the right thing to do, can also cost you a lot more than you are offering to pay. People, even those you consider friends, will take a lot from you, as soon as you show a slight sign that you are willing to give.

A friendship that is built on those foundations is not a great friendship at all, and the story below is a perfect example of that.

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  • The hair salon owner in the story below wanted to help her friend's daughter, who wants to become a hairdresser herself. Since the friend can't afford to send her daughter to an actual cosmetology school, this owner offered to train the daughter herself, free of charge. However, her friend, the mom, decided to take advantage of the kind offer, and demand a lot more instead.

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    "I offered to train her daughter for free. She wanted cash instead."

    I run a female hair salon, and a friend of mine Suzy came to me saying how much her daughter loves hairdressing. She said she
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    couldn't afford to register her in any salon to learn the skill and pleaded if there's any way I could help. I told her I'd be happy to train her daughter in my
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    salon for free. No charge at all. She'd be learning a full trade from a professional at no cost. Suzy's response?
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    "Oh, I wasn't expecting that. Can't you just give me the cash instead so I can register her in a salon closer to our house? The
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    salon is just opposite our house Coming to your salon every day is going to waste transport fare."
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    For context, my salon is a 10-minute drive from her house and also trekable let say 15 to 20mins. I told her this is what I can offer: free training, real skills, no fees.
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    She replied "10 minutes drive will still cost us money. If you really want to help, give me the money so I can register her nearby."
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    I told her that's all I could offer, and she said: "You're just not willing to help out."
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    pluslinus Suzy is now an ex-friend
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    Cencal88 OP I cut off our closeness after that ungrateful response from her
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    SuperReddfan NTA for now. However if she comes back, you will be if the offer is still on the table, she's shown you she's not your friend and does not value your time or skill I feel sorry for her child.
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    Cencal88 OP I cant offer her a help she doesn't value moreover i have blocked her.
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    Z-man1973 I just don't think sometimes people don't realize how selfish and unrealistic they can be. That was an extremely generous offer from the OP.
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    Cencal88 OP Thank you
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    Hungry Pup I think she just wants money. The daughter is just a cover story
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    egonz91 If you offer to pay for the classes, in person, I bet they would decline. They want cash. No intention of putting it towards schooling. You made an amazing gesture and any honest person would take you up on it, no questions asked.
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    OwlKitty2 Talk to the poor girl herself. She will probably be terrified about her mothers behavoiur and devestated about the opportunity she just lost.
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    MorticianMolly Where are you? I'll take the offer. I'll bring lunches as well.
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    glasstumblet Suzy stupid!
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    Cencal88 OP And unreasonable.
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