‘I came out of my room and yelled at both of them’: 16-year-old snaps at parents after months of nightly arguments, defending his 8-year-old sister and turning the family’s tension into an all-out standoff

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  • AITAH for yelling at my parents?

    "I just try to tune it out, but my little sister can't"
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  • I (16M) live with my parents and my 8-year-old sister. For the past few months, my parents have been arguing constantly. Like,
  • yelling almost every night, slamming doors, cussing each other out over everything money, us, their parents.
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  • Most of the time I just try to tune it out, but my little sister can't. She gets scared and runs into my room crying, asking me if they're
  • getting divorced or if she did. something wrong. I do my best to calm her down, but it's hard. She's a kid.
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  • Last night it got really bad again and I just snapped. I came out of my room and yelled at both of them to shut up. I told them
  • they're scaring her and making everything worse, and that I'm tired of pretendin everything's normal when it's not. I might've
  • said something like "You're both acting like children," which, yeah, not my proudest line.
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  • They both got quiet but later my mom told me I was out of line and that I "don't understand how hard it is being an adult." My dad
  • didn't say much, just gave me a ped-off look. Now it's super tense in the house and I feel kinda guilty.
  • I know I yelled, and maybe I shouldn't have, but I was just so tired of seeing my sister freaked out and no one doing anything about it. So... AITAH?
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  • Jumpy_Imagination Not out of line, NTA. You stood up for yourself and your sister, that will never be wrong.
  • casciomystery NTA. Your sister is lucky to have you as a brother.
  • ViolinistThick1604 NTA - My own kids are not that much older than you and their snapping at you is how their guilt is manifesting.
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  • I hope you and your sister BOTH know that your parents' issues are NOT your fault. Y'all are caught in the crossfire. I hope you have a trusted adult to turn to if you need help.
  • FoxyLady52 NTA. You're more adult than they are, at the moment. Call an aunt or uncle to come get both of you if it happens again. For your sanity and to wake them up.

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