Woman refuses her 23-year-old sister’s demands to help raise her affair baby with a 37-year-old married man Mike she met at a college party: ‘I'm not helping her with the baby so figure it out’

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Aug 3, 2025 6:00 PM EDT

Adult siblings often serve as unwilling audience members to each other's life disasters, watching in horror as family members make decisions that defy both logic and basic human decency. The modern train wreck sibling operates with the confidence of someone who believes consequences are optional, treating family relationships like emotional dumping grounds while expecting unlimited support for increasingly catastrophic choices.

This 23-year-old sister's dramatic inclinations reveal fascinating insights into selective responsibility and weaponized vulnerability. This chaos merchant approaches life decisions with the strategic planning of skateboarding teenagers, then transforms their inevitable disasters into everyone else's emergency.

Her kind possess supernatural abilities to ignore red flags the size of billboards while maintaining perfect vision for potential enablers. The sister who secretly records phone calls during arguments demonstrates the kind of boundary-crossing creativity that would impress surveillance professionals, treating family members like unwitting participants in her personal soap opera.

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  • AITA for telling my sister I'm not helping her with the baby so figure it out?

    "She's a grown woman but acts like a child and it's embarrassing"
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  • The most impressive feat involves their ability to rationalize destroying other people's families while positioning themselves as romantic heroines rather than homewreckers. They approach married men like real estate opportunities, viewing wives as temporary obstacles rather than human beings deserving basic respect. These delusional architects of their own misery genuinely believe that pregnancy serves as relationship superglue, capable of magically transforming affair partners into devoted family men who abandon cancer survivors for mistresses.

  • The family enablement trap creates perfect storms where reasonable relatives get guilted into supporting unreasonable behavior through exhaustion and misplaced loyalty. Our exasperated sister learned that sometimes love means refusing to participate in someone else's self-destruction, discovering that saying no to family disasters requires the same backbone as any other boundary-setting exercise.

  • So this we be a lot of bulls, sometimes my sister make dumb decision and I cant agree with her on everything.
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  • Like she's a grown woman but acts like a child and it's embarrassing.
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  • Op(25F) My sister(23F) is a type of person that will make you fall in love just by her smile, that's why a lot of people liked her in high school.
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  • At this time, my sister mest this guy who we will call mike.
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  • I knew of him because she met him at a college party, he was 37.
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  • I didn't know why a 37 old man was at a college party but it was obvious when my sister told me about him.
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  • My sister hit it off with him, and oh my days she would make every conversation about him so that was annoying.
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  • She got deep into the relationship, going on dates, staying at his apartment. This is when things started to get rocky, you know couples have arguments and that's okay.
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  • My sister and mike would argue everyday, I know this because she would secretly call me so I could hear but she never gave me a heads up about that so I was confused.
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  • My sister was upset with mike because he wouldn't let her see his phone, it was around 4 am when she called me to tell me big news.
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  • She told me that mike was married with kids, his wife was a cancer survivor.
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  • she was p ed off with him which was understandable, they stopped talking.
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  • My sister was so angry she started making jokes about mikes wife which wasn't right because that lady did nothing to her.
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  • That was on 7/27/24 when this happened new year so we expect new things and leaving bad things in the past, right?
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  • Well not with my sister, we haven't spoken in months.
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  • I would call her on face time but she would have the camera off, found it weird but didn't budge.
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  • Time goes on on, didn't hear from her until now.
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  • She called me with high spirit like she didn't ghost me for months.
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  • Our conversation started off normal, but that's when she was trying to hint something to me, but wasn't really working.
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  • She Finally told me she was pregnant, I was happy but also night because it was a shock to me because always said she never wanted kids.
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  • I still congratulated her, probably wasn't appropriate to ask but I did ask who was the baby father because no one knew who the guy she wasn't seeing to get to know him since she's having their baby.
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  • That's when she became silent, I knew she had done something wrong again.
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  • I don't know what clicked in me but I randomly asked if it was mikes, I was hoping she said no but she said yes sadly.
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  • I was mad at her because she was doing this to herself, and she wasn't being smart about it.
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  • She was still messing with mike but he stopped talking to her after the announcement of the baby.
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  • She was happy about the baby, she said the baby will bring her and mike together again because he doesn't need his wife.
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  • I paused for a few seconds until she told me to say something, I told her if she thinks I'm helping with this baby then think again because I'm not, she needs to figure it out.
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  • Maybe I overdid it on that part, I don't know honestly.
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