Couple breaks up over Mario Kart dispute when 30-year-old gamer-boyfriend refuses to comfort her after a hard day at work: 'I was just looking for some compassion, but he was playing Mario Kart again'

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    AITA for breaking up with my bf over Mariokart?

    Hi guys, I honestly have been feeling really about this and the people around me have been making me feels ty too, so I need to know
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    if I'm the a h le for breaking up with my boyfriend. So, for context, I (24F) have been dating someone for the past two years (30M). It has honestly been
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    great for the most part, he's really sweet and supportive and I definitely saw myself spending my life with him, but lately something changed.
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    Every couple of weeks he get these new interests that take up his entire time when he's not working, and usually I think it's
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    really cute but his latest interest was MarioKart. Now, I'm not a big gamer myself, but I enjoyed MarioKart when I grew up so I have been playing with him every now and then.
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    Every. Single. Game. He beats me. And it's not even like cute and competitive like you see sometimes. It's almost embarrassing and he enjoys
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    shoving it in my face that i'm not as good as him and just making me feel like s t for losing. I am quite competitive myself, and I
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    keep on trying to beat him just once but I have absolutely no shot at doing so. It has gotten to a point where we'd play almost every day, and
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    even when we don't play he brings it up in conversations. When we're with friends, he enjoys gloating about his achievements while absolutely
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    ridiculing me. I tried talking to him about it, since this obsession has been going on for a while and he hasn't shown any signs of stopping it yet. He just told me
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    that it was a game and I shouldn't take it so serious. I broke up with him after I had just gotten home from a sty day at work. I work in childcare so
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    I think y'all can imagine how stressful a day can be. I was just looking for some compassion but he was playing MarioKart again and was trying to get me to play.
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    I tried telling him I just wanted to eat and go to bed but he kept on pestering me about playing and I just snapped. I told him I couldn't do this anymore and if he didn't
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    stop playing I would break up. He told me again how I shouldn't overreact and that it was just a game, so I packed a small bag and have been staying over at one of my best friends place.
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    She is the only person who understands my point of view, since she didn't know my bf before I did, but the rest of our friends and both my and his
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    family have been texting me constantly telling me I shouldn't have overreacted and just take him back. So, AITA?
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    PurplePhoenix552 Sometimes you're winning in Mario Kart, its all going your way and then you hit a banana and lose the race. Bro hit a banana, pass him and don't look back.
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    jiggly_boop ΝΤΑ The only thing worse than a sore loser is a sore winner. He seems to enjoy feeling superior to you and that's a big red flag.
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    Impressive Sir1108 Nta, he can date princess peach.
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    Charming-Nymph The game wasn't the issue, it was just the last straw. It sounds like he wasn't giving you the emotional support you needed. NTA.
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    Longjumping Rise7849 I'll beat him at Mario kart for you
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    Character_Kick_Stand Sounds like it's just a game, and it's very, very serious.
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    runic_trickster7 NTA if its just a game maybe he should realize that instead of telling you over and over again.
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    Sector2117 30 years old and acting like a pre-teen who is dunking on their friends who aren't as good at the game. Even worse, taking it outside the game and acting a fool in public. There is probably a good reason he has no one else to play with. NTA

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