‘I was really embarrassed’: Whiny boyfriend spends all long road trip to mountain range sighing and complaining about driving, making his girlfriend cringe, and their friends awkwardly enduring hours of discomfort

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  • My boyfriend whined during the entire drive=

    QUIT COMPLAINING
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  • recently went on a trip with my bf and couple friends. We rented a car and I asked if we should add me as an additional driver.
  • He said it's up to me but didn't really care so I didn't ask to be added. We decided to drive to a popular mountain range.
  • It was about 2.5 hour drive each way. We both agreed that based on our previous trips I'm better at providing directions while he drives.
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  • man in white hooded sweatshirt behind the wheel driving car
  • I even asked if he wanted me to drive and my friend ask if he want her to drive. We were both met with a no.
  • My bf started sighing really loudly every 30 seconds to 2 minutes about an hour into the trip. I was really embarrassed since our friends were with us.
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  • I asked if everything was fine and he said he's fine. This happens a few more times and again after my friends went inside the store.
  • STOP COMPLAINING
  • For snacks, I asked again and was met with I'm fine and now just a bit tired. Once we reached the parking area, he seemed very apologetic.
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  • He even wanted to stay for dinner/hikes. After a few hours there we went on a very short hike and he wanted to keep going after a friend.
  • In our group suggested staying I reminded him that it will get dark soon and he does not like driving in the dark. He agreed and we left.
  • But again the same sighs start again. He starts getting whinny and almost childish about the drive. Finally we are 5 minutes away.
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  • From our hotel and he starts getting short with me and snapping at me or asking how far are we in a very condescending manner. I'm at a loss.
  • And very embarrassed that my friends probably felt bad/uncomfortable as passengers. How should I handle this?

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