Traveling nurse asks friends to stay at their house in Hawaii for three months, they agree, only to kick her out a week later following her endless demands: ‘My boyfriend will be coming with me, and I'll need a car too’

How many favors are too many favors? Well, if you ask the traveling nurse in the story below, she will admit that she has no problem asking her friends for endless favors, and she sees nothing wrong with it. 

Asking your friends if you can stay with them at their house for three months is a huge favor as it is. I could barely handle people staying over for one night, so three months? I must really love that person to agree. But if they were to add more and more favors to this already huge one, like bringing along a partner, or borrowing my car every day–there is nobody I love enough to agree.

But when this traveling nurse piled these favors one on top of the other, her friends, the hosting couple, felt like they had no choice but to agree. Until one day, they simply had had enough…

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    A friend, who was a traveling nurse, asked if she could come stay with us for 3 months, with lots of extras

    My wife and I used to live in Hawaii and had a house on the Big Island.
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    One day, I got a call from a friend, Lana, who used to live on Oahu, but then moved to San Diego.
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    She called me saying that she was now a traveling nurse and had to make a decision asap about whether to take a job on the Big Island or on the East Coast.
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    She needed to make a decision within 30 minutes and it was for 3 months and wanted to know if she could stay with us and pay rent for that time.
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    I asked my wife and she said, "Fine, it will be good to see Lana again." I called her back and said it would be fine for her to stay with us for that time.
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    Then, she tells me, "Oh, btw, my boyfriend will be coming with me too. And also, I'll need a car too bc I can't afford to rent a car bc I have a $500/mo car payment here in CA."
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    That was a bit of a shock given we had agreed to her staying with us alone, and now there would be two of them.
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    She also asked if we drank coffee, and we did, so she told us she made a 12 cup pot everyday.
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    She ended up going thru all our coffee in about a week after she arrived and Kona coffee was $18/lb.
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    So Lana and her bf arrived and he seemed nice and grateful.
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    Then, a new wrinkle was that since she would be doing a 12 hr shift, so her bf would have to drive her to work and then get her afterwards, making 2 trips each day.
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    I figured out that it was 60 mi one way from our home to the hospital she worked at which meant 120 mi RT and 240 mi each day with TWO trips down there.
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    She'd be putting at least 960 mi/week on our car.
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    Then, she added that her bf would go fishing during her shift and stay in town
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    That was too much to ask, knowing that her bf would take our car, drive it around town
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    We started arguing about it and after about a week, she found another place to rent, closer to work and I said that giving her a free car to drive around in was too much to ask.
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    She finally agreed to rent her own car and went NC with us and we called her about when she would return our car.
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    She also complained that the Honda Accord we loaned her did not have the AC working.
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    Well, she eventually returned the car but never informed us when.
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    Just a final text msg that, "It's in your driveway."
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    Never paid us a penny for her first week stay in our home.
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    Talk about entitled friends.
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    Update Prior to this, she was a generous friend who always invited us to stay in her home when we visited Oahu. Went out of
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    her way to make special meals for us and seemed like a normal sane person. We lost touch for a few years and then she called
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    out of the blue and asked to reconnect. We had no idea she would make such outrageous demands after we initially agreed to let
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    her stay with us. We were kinda stunned by her new demands and tried our best to accommodate her. Living with her was a whole different story. We
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    did our best for the sake of our friendship but it became too much once she lived with us.
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  • At one point in this story, would you have said ‘enough’ and told your friend to find their own arrangement?

    Honestly, if it were me, it would have been during the second phone call when she told them her boyfriend would be joining. Let's hope this couple will learn to stand up for themselves in the future…

     

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