'She said giving us the kittens was a lapse of judgment': Unhinged cat rescuer demands kittens back after couple adopts them and the momma cat, claiming she gave them the kittens by mistake

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Blake Seidel • Managing Editor & Brand Manager
Aug 19, 2025 10:00 AM EDT

We have made a lot of mistakes in our lives, but giving people a momma cat and two kittens has not been one of them. We've accidentally sent a message meant for our friends to our work group chat, and we've had a 10-minute conversation with a black shirt that we were absolutely sure was our black cat, Pierre, but we've never mistakenly given cats away. There are so many steps involved in giving cats away that it's not one mistake, it's at least five, if not more. 

That's why we're calling out the unhinged cat rescuer in this post - we think she's pawsitively lying through the skin of her teeth. She found a pregnant cat, rescued her, and she gave birth to two cute kittens later. Wanting to keep all three cats together, she looked for people willing to adopt three cats, and as you can imagine, there aren't many people willing to adopt three cats (with two of them being kittens) all at once.

Luckily, the couple in this post opened their hearts and homes to the feline family. Overjoyed, the rescuer treated them with the utmost kindness and handed over the cats to their new pawrents. Days later, she flipped the script entirely, saying that giving them the cats was a "lapse of judgment". Uh-huh, sure. And our cats never wake us up at 5:30 AM, screaming for food. We'll leave it up to you to decide whether you think she's fibbing or not, but we're pawsitively certain something fishy was going on.

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    [Am I wrong] for refusing to give back a woman's kittens after she gave them to me?

    Mother cat and her kittens including 'The cats were legally gifted to me and put in my care and you cannot take them back'
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    This is going to be long because I don't even know where to start. I and my boyfriend (both 21) moved into our own apartment in early July. We have one cat who, living with his mom, was around multiple other cats and when we moved we only took her and I could tell she was getting lonely. We chatted about it and decided we were going to get another cat.
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    We checked out the local shelter, but one of the cats had tested positive for ringworm and the shelter was pausing all viewings and adoptions for three weeks. We accepted this and moved on. I was on Nextdoor and coincidentally saw a post of a woman (we'll call her A) re-homing a BEAUTIFUL calico cat, saying she couldn't care for her anymore. I texted her number not expecting much.
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    A calls me, and we end up chatting. She tells me she rescues local strays in the area, neuters them and sends them back outside. She took this cat in because she saw it was starving and a week later, the
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    cat gave birth to 3 babies. One didn't make it. The kittens are 5 weeks old now and A's rehoming them all because she just found out she has stage 2 cancer and after her surgery she won't be able to take care of them.
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    Two kittens
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    A tells me she wishes all three cats could go together so she wouldn't have to separate them. She says if I didn't take them, her sister would have to, and she apparently didn't want to but only would to help out A. My
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    boyfriend and I talked about it and we had the time, resources and financial stability needed to care for all three. When we told her this, she was over the MOON. Talking about how excited she was, how she couldn't wait to meet us. She
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  • It's such a stroke of luck that the couple was able to take all three cats at once. We don't know anyone who would be willing to take all three cats at the drop of a hat. That's a huge commitment! Three extra mouths to feed, a few new litter boxes, young kitten care… it all adds up!

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    even comes that same day to not only pick us up and takes us to her house, but she gives us dinner and constantly states how happy she is. She drives us home with mom and babies and we've been settling in nicely.
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    This is where it gets upsetting. She texted me today saying that her sister is really p ed that she gave the kittens to us, and that apparently the sister wanted to "surprise" her by happily taking the kittens in after acting upset about it. A
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    says her sister won't go to her cancer surgery if we don't give her the kittens, but that we can keep the mother. I texted her back saying that I'd be happy to reimburse the sister for every last penny she spent on the kittens setup, but that they were
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    settling in nicely here. Basically just trying to be nice while also sending the message that I was not interested in giving them back.
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    Woman holding a black kitten
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    She just called me again, saying a lot of weird stuff. She said that we only went there for the mother but that's not true. We had agreed to take the kittens before we even got there. A said that it was a lapse of judgement,
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    she didn't mean to give them to us (lady, what?) and that this is causing a split in her family. She isn't elderly by any means, but was saying that we were being cruel for only texting her (I don't do well with verbal confrontation) and that since we
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    are both Christians and this is causing her depre son, I am being cruel and need to give them back. I don't know what to do. I love these cats, we named them, I'm setting up vet appointments and pet insurance and I know that they are legally ours because of gift laws in my state. I just don't know what to do or if I am being irrational by not wanting to give them back.
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    EDIT: Her niece texted me and they are now threatening to call the cops.
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    Safari 11:24 + 111 41 +1 (201) 705-4600 2 People > Text Message • RCS Today 11:14 PM Hey Katie, this is niece. We both want to check in on the kittens you and I brought back to your place yesterday 8/11 How are the kittens and mommy doing. We need to know all is well Send us some pics I realized you've been not responding but we need to know they're to okay. My aunts going through a lot and she needs to know the mommy cat and kittens are okay. If we don't hear from you we will reach out to theco
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    Safari 11:24 111 41 2 People > from vet visits we have completed with our previous cat. There is no question about if the cats are taken care of. However, it is not my responsibility to foresee that her sister would have wanted the cats in the end. From what we were told, she would have only taken them in to help out your aunt. I am not responding over phone call because I am busy, but I can text about it. There are multiple text messages that I have with that state that we would be taking all t
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  • Call the cops? Okay, go for it. That's some crazy-talk right there. Something about this smells fishy, and it's not the can of tuna we just opened. Now we have our cats yelling at us, this woman saying she's going to call the cops, and it smells like salty fish? Could things get pawsitively any worse?

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    Horror_Tea761 I would stop communicating with her. Get the mama and kittens established with a vet and chipped asap. This lady sounds full of drama and you need to separate yourself from it.
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    tiggerboy1990 Seems like a done deal. Sign anything?
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    LazyAd622 Block that weirdo. Get the cats chipped ASAP.
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    Dragon_Queen_666 NTA. They're yours now. Block the lady and enjoy your life with your new furry family.
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    Maine302 A is cuckoo for Cocoa Puffs. NTA. Her story keeps changing so I think I'd block her. It's not like her sister is gonna have a difficult time finding kittens out in the world.
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    annebonnell NTA Her sister wanted to surprise her? Her sister won't go to her cancer surgery if she doesn't get the kittens back? These and everything else she has told you our lies. She is probably going to sell those kittens for medical research. Please get all four cats microchipped in your name immediately. That way she can't touch them.
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    Visual_Patience_41 This woman wants the kittens back because she's going to sell them. You can keep the mom because no one wants the mom.
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    Here's what happened, she thought she could sell them, she wasn't getting any bites and so decided to just give them away so she didn't have the hassle, then someone popped up and took the bait wanting to buy them and this is the only reason she wants them back.
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    Everything about her story is sketchy . They can call the cops if they want but chances are you likely have text messages about the kittens AND a post on Nextdoor. She has no recourse here. Keep the cats, she can pound salt.
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    PS. Her sister is a piece of sh, cat sh, if she's ready to skip her sisters cancer surgery over some cats. ing
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    deminobi Where I am, by law, you can't get rid of kittens before 8 weeks old unless they are with mama.
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    Even if that's not the case where you are, it's worth mentioning that those 5 week old kittens shouldn't be separated from the mama, and since she clearly stated that you rightfully have mama, then you rightfully have her babies.
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    Either way, NTAH. Don't give them back. She's clearly unhinged, and they really shouldn't be separated from their litter and mama at 5 weeks. 12 weeks would be best if you were to re-home.
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