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AITJ my fiancé told me “this is it, take it or leave it.” So I gave him the ring back and told him to get out of my house
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She leaves it, ring back, guest room tonight, move out tomorrow, not because money matters more than love, but because unearned ownership is not love in any dialect.
If equal only appears at the title office, it is not a value, it is a tactic, and if partnership requires a windfall to feel real, it is not partnership, it is a dependency audition with a nicer wardrobe.
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Boundaries keep resentment from compounding like bad interest, and stewardship beats vibes when there are real assets, real plans, and a life to protect . Tom can be a catch somewhere else, preferably where equal means contribute, not collect, and where take it or leave it is reserved for appetizers, not housing law.
‘I took off the ring, told him it was over, and that he needed to move out’: 37-year-old Tom demands his rich fiancée buy a bigger house and put it 50-50 in both names, drops a take-it-or-leave-it ultimatum, and immediately regrets it
Our guy Tom right here gives us all a crash course in fumbling your fiancée and crashing your engagement, and at 37, the only thing he seems to have accrued is confidence without collateral.
He clocks her inheritance and instantly rebrands equality as a deed with his name on it, pitching a bigger house titled fifty-fifty, no matching equity, and a future room for dad like it's a bundle deal. She offers the adult plan, separate finances, joint account for shared bills, split by income, equity equals contribution, prenup to keep premarital assets premarital, also known as standard hygiene for people who pay attention. He calls that unfair, then drops the magic words that end relationships faster than infidelity, this is it, take it or leave it, which translates to here's my handout dressed as principle, sign below.
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