Woman ghosts boyfriend after an argument days before his 36th birthday, then lashes out when he makes other plans with a friend, claiming she had something special planned: ‘She feels I should automatically prioritize her’

This woman's middle name should be spelled C-O-N-F-U-S-E-D. Because it's clear she has no idea what she wants or how to deal with it. She ghosts her boyfriend after an argument (Classic, often necessary), but goes on to take it a bit too far by ignoring him for days on end. Then, during a therapy session, he expresses his new birthday plans with a friend, after assuming he wouldn't be spending the day in an utter utopia with the girl who's blocked his number. But when she discovers that he's committed to mountain biking and dinner with a friend, she completely loses it. She claims he should've 'just known' she had planned something special for the two of them, but now sees clearly where his priorities lie. 

Listen, I'm a girl's girl, and I'll defend my ladies until the end of time, but unless I'm missing a huge chunk of the story that shows his true character, there isn't much room to steer away from the direction she's headed in: slightly cray-cray…No judgment, babe. It happens. But something clearly isn't working between the two of them, and I have a sharp inkling that it could be this little thing called communication. I've heard it's pretty important in relationships. You two might want to try it out, and soon. If not, it's time to write your goodbyes and seal it with a few kisses to the cheek, while you're both still bordering on civil. 

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