'She asked me if she can have her kitten back': After 21-year-old adopts a shelter kitten, former owner tracks her on social media and tries to reclaim her, but this new pawrent isn't budging

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    'She was found in the road, abandoned and bitten by a dog'
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    I (21F) went to an animal shelter about 2 weeks ago and fell in love with this gorgeous 6 month old kitten, who was so friendly and needed a home. I asked the team about her history to find out why she was here and they said she was found in the road, abandoned and bitten by a dog. I
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    immediately filled in the adoption paperwork for this kitty but she was still healing so I couldn't take her home straight away. On Saturday she was finally spayed, microchipped and ready to come to her new home which she has slotted into perfectly.
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    So tonight I received a call and message from an unknown number that says she is the owner of my kitten and she wants her back. She said she saw a post on Facebook that I had adopted her kitten and tracked me down on Instagram to find my phone number on my business's
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    account. She explained that she moved out of her parents' house where the kitten lived and that she had to wait for her new landlord to tell her if she can have a kitten or not. She said the kitten kept trying to find her and one morning the kitten went outside to find and wasn't seen again.
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    She asked me if she can have her kitten back, she will even pay for her because she's been looking for her for a month and sent me photos to prove it is hers. I told her that I adopted her from an animal shelter where she was recovering from a dog bite and kept in a cage and that I am NOT interested in giving her back. Am I the a_h_le?
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    Ok-Complex5075 NTA. I would be completely uncomfortable if someone found my information like that and tried to convince me to give them my kitten (I adopted an abandoned kitten in 2023). I'd block her.
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    You adopted that kitten, followed all the procedures, and if she had had that kitten previously, she clearly didn't look hard enough, as you found her in a shelter. If my cat got out, the first places I'd be looking are shelters.
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    eventhoughitsnotr... NTA, The kitten wasn't chipped. There's no documentation proving she owned the cat. Block her and move on.
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    settledownbessye In my area we have a 7 day stray hold to allow owners the opportunity to get their pets back. If they don't within that timeframe, then the animal is up for adoption. As long as the shelter followed their standard process for strays, the kitten is yours.
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    Why didn't she contact the shelter immediately to see if her kitten was picked up? When our cat escaped and went missing, I contacted every shelter in my area and provided pictures and info about him. They all posted the pics and info on their social media and kept an
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    eye out for him in their intakes. He didn't show up, but if he had I would have been notified (even disregarding that he was chipped anyway).
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    IcePrincess_Not_... NTA - I volunteer for an animal rescue and when people who care, lose their pets, they're contacting every shelter, rescue, posting online, making flyers, etc. to try to find their pet. The shelter took the kitten in, had the kitten long enough to have it heal from an injury, and then fix, vaccinate, and microchip the pet.
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    If the person had invested even the amount of time in finding the kitten, that they did tracking you down via the internet, they would have found them at the local shelter. That's YOUR cat. Not theirs.
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    Cosi-grl Absolutely NTA. The kitten wasn't chipped, was left out on the street. No way was the kitten "trying to find her", and who knows if it's even the same kitten.
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    heathers-damage NTA, This person has no proof that it's their cat besides some pictures and didn't even get this kitten microchipped in the first place. This isn't a cat she had for 8 years you plucked off the street, it was a kitten lucky enough to end up In a
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    shelter where you adopted them and not eaten by a dog or some other predator. This is your cat, but I would document any kind of escalation from her bc the level of online stalking is unhinged.
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    L2N2 Anyone legit who loses a pet is in touch with every shelter around them. Congrats on your new kitten.
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    Cheeseburgers_ If my kitten was lost, I'd be messaging every shelter nearby to make sure they keep a lookout for her and alert me asap. She wasn't looking that hard, and definitely shouldn't be given your kitten. NTA.
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    Traditional-Swan-... You legally adopted her, and she's safe now. The previous owner lost that right when she abandoned the kitten
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    Strange-Gazelle-9... NTA shelters have stray holds where they must legally keep the cat for a certain amount of time before adopting the animal out. After that time, the animal can legally be adopted out. It's a sad situation for the previous owner, but the cat is yours.
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    Artistic_Animator... NTA, funny how she could do all of this research to find out how to contact you, but did no research to find her "beloved kitten".
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    Jerseygirl2468 NTA while if it was her kitten it's sad for her, you adopted this cat through the shelter and are the owner. She can talk to them if she wants, but if she didn't have the kitten chipped and has no record of ownership, she's out of luck. She also moved out and abandoned it with her parents, right? Not a great pet owner.
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    ehsole & if the landlord said no then what? glad that baby found a good home
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    Ti... NTA - her situation is unfortunate but you legally own the cat. (also lock down your social media)
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    Kxnkyliv NTA. You rescued an animal she didn't take care of the first time, you don't deserve to have your heartbroken to give her a second chance to fumble it.
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    Medusa_7898 Block her and contact the animal shelter as well. You have done nothing wrong.

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