'Seriously I want you to leave... Now!' Unhinged 40-year-old houseguest demands that her "friend" and her cats leave their own home so the houseguest and her 5 untrained dogs could live there

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Mariel Ruvinsky • Writer and Editor
Sep 23, 2025 9:00 AM EDT

As people who believe that friendships get tested during people's most difficult periods, we think that should do whatever you can to help your friends in their times of need. That includes bringing them into your homes for a while. It includes making an effort to accommodate them and help them get their footing back under them. 

Of course, we warn our friends that we do have a couple adorable cats in our house that they will have to deal with, and if our friends are bringing dogs, those dogs will have to deal with the cats too. Because as many accommodations that we are willing to make, our cats (also known as our family members) will always take first priority. We think that's fair. And so we respect what the friend in this story did. She invited a friend in need into her home, suffered the five dogs that she brought with her and all the other insufferable things that her houseguest did. And then, the guest crossed a line… 

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    "Entitled houseguest from h*ll!!!"

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    I (45f) let a friend (40f) stay in my guest bedroom for what was supposed to be (just a couple of days). After a week of sending me text messages from my guestroom ordering me around like I was the hired help, she marches into my bedroom wearing my clothes she told me weren't mine.
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    And says "I've given it some thought and I think it would be better for me and my dogs (all 5 of them that I asked her not to bring her because I'm allergic and they aren't housebroken) if you and your cats moved out...
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    I started to laugh thinking it was a joke and then she said "seriously I want you to leave.... Now!".
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    I looked at her like she had lost her mind and reminded her that she is a guest in my house that I have been living in for over 12 years and if my presence bothers her she can stop squatting in my guestroom and get the **** out.
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    She refused to leave u she eventually got trespassed from the property for screaming at my landlord and threatening to attack her with her pitbull.
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    Now she's telling everyone who will listen that I conspired with my landlord to steal her house out from under her and that I ruined her life. She's never lived here and only stayed for a few weeks.
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    I have been here over 12 years and have been the only person on my lease the entire time. I don't understand how you can be that entitled and delusional.
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  • Gosh, as we were reading through this, we were hoping that the story was fake, but we don't think that it is. There is too much going on here. Too much insanity. Too much to come up with. And somehow, knowing that the story is real just makes it all that much worse. 

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    Ayendes why would you let her stay with 5 unhousebroken dogs that you asked her not to bring in the first place?
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    JoeJr 1980 OP She brought the dogs into my house when I was at physical therapy and I had no idea they weren't housebroken. She also tried to hide them from me for days and since I'm recovering from surgery I couldn't physically force her to leave. I didn't "allow" her to bring her dogs. She went to her ex's house and got the whole I was at physical therapy.
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    MountainMirthMaker She rolled in uninvited with five dogs, took over your house, and then told you to move?? Nah. That's mental illness mixed with entitlement soup.
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    JoeJr 1980 OP She's a psychopath.
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  • There is a certain point where helping a friend becomes detrimental to yourself and the rest of your household, and that point was crossed too many times by this person. Goodbye and good riddance. Some people are better off not being a part of our lives. 

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    Simbastica Sounds like a made up story to me
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    JoeJr 1980 OP I wish I was making this up!!! I really still have a hard time believing anyone could be that self- centered and disrespectful but unfortunately it happened. For the record I have Asperger's syndrome and lying and making up elaborate stories isn't something my brain really does. I'm literally like "hurt your feelings" honest. I'm still trying to get my head around the fact that their really are people in this world that are this terrible to people who did nothing but try to help th
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    JoeJr 1980 OP After talking to several other people that used to be friends with her this is apparently her normal pattern of behavior and everyone that has been nice enough to try to help her in the past agrees that she's a textbook psychopath.
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    For the record she is currently living in a tent in the desert because no one wants to help her because she actually seems to think kindness is a personality defect. She's only happy when she's making someone else's life miserable, taking everything she can possibly get from them then when they are no longer useful to her she moves on to her next victim and starts the cycle all over again
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    notjustmeso I think 'unhinged' is a better description than 'entitled'
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    Street-Emu-3980 This isn't entitlement, this is psychopathy
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