Neighbors feud after homeowner refuses stranger's request to use his yard for her wedding reception: 'She grew up in my house'

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  • "AITJ For Not Letting a Stranger Get Married in My Back Yard?"

    I have been living in my house for about 15 years, got it after a family lost it to foreclosure, which is admittedly really sad... but also it is what it is.
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  • A few weeks ago a young woman came to door and explained that she grew up in my house and had always dreamed of getting married in the back yard where she used to play with her childhood sweetheart who she's now marrying.
  • She wanted to know if I would oblige her request and let her have her wedding reception there. She offered to pay for anything related.
  • I politely declined. I don't really want a bunch of people in my yard and I have actually done a bunch of renovations to add a berry patch, deck, outdoor kitchen area, rose and hydrangea bushes, and a few other things I just dont want messed up by the would be attendees.
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  • She became pretty irate and tried to argue with me, then started crying, and it just all seemed sort of histrionic to me personally.
  • I asked to leave and she did and I never heard from her again. But then today my neighbor who has always been very nice to me called me a "nasty person" and that he heard from the family I wasn't going to let the woman marry in my yard.
  • Am I a J ? This seems like an odd request and I am a bit overwhelmed that I may earn a bad reputation in my neighborhood if it spreads around.
  • edit: thank you all for your insights. ive been reading through and appreciate the support. I also appreciate the romantics who think im wrong.
  • you're better than me, but alas, I think am just going to have to be the j today. Hopefully my reputation isn't all the way tanked.
  • Taki583 NTA. It's your property. Plus, what about insurance? You have to have special insurance to cover something like that. Too much to ask a stranger to do simply because you bought a house.
  • Ok-Manufacturer5890 Just let the neighbour know he's welcome to host them in their yard.. NTJ
  • Pizza-Gremlin Nah, mate, NTA. It's ur pad, end of story. Woulda been nice, sure, but it's not like she had her wedding booked in ur yard & u canceled last min. She gotta respect boundaries, dude, & it sounds entitled af she'd kick off like that. Hope things chill out in ur neighborhood, no one wants drama.
  • Forsaken_Pick3201 NTJ - not at all. The liability alone would be unreasonable. Not to mention if they decided to have alc ol. NOPE! No way. Where would they expect to pee?
  • BTW be careful and watch your - home. If she is entitled enough to ask that and behave like she did, she may just decide to do it anyway. That would be a police call.

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