Woman and her 3-month-old kitten are displaced when cat-hating in-laws come to visit, husband sides with his parents and banishes the feline: 'He wants us to leave our apartment for them'

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  • AITA for suggesting my in-laws stay at an Airbnb instead of us leaving our home with our kitten?
  • My parents in law are visiting us for a week. Because our space is small (50m2), they would have to sleep on the couch which they wouldn't
  • like, so I suggested booking an Airbnb for them. That way they could spend the day with us, enjoy homemade meals (my husband insists on that,
  • they will get mad if it isn't the case), then go out and return for dinner at our place before spending the night at their Airbnb comfortably.
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  • My husband hated this idea and was furious. He wants us to leave our apartment for them and stay at an Airbnb ourselves, taking our 3 month
  • old kitten with us (because they hate cats) and then come back every morning to prepare meals, do house chores for them and spend the day with them.
  • Am I crazy for thinking this sounds unreasonable?
  • TiredandConfuse This is insanity. It's your home. Say no and don't leave. Also please get rid of your husband. How embarrassing to be an adult man pandering to his mummy like that.
  • Awkward_Profile Go stay at the Airbnb on your own and have a nice few days of vacation. Let your hubby sleep on the couch and cook and clean
  • for his parents. You aren't anyone's housekeeper or personal chef. If he wants mommy and daddy to have homecooked meals, he can cook them himself
  • tiera-3. I am surprised that no-one has pointed out that it is distressing on a cat to relocate for a short time.
  • souljaboyyuuaa • NTA. Tell your husband he I can do all the house chores and cook homemade meals (since he insists on that)
  • while his parents are around while you do nothing but care for the kitten. When they leave, tell him to go home with Mommy and Daddy.
  • kurok... NTA It doesn't even make sense. Your place is not their home, so why would they be more comfortable in your home than in an Airbnb?
  • Would they be sleeping in your bed? Snooping through your things? what's the attraction?
  • Certainly you and your kitten would be more comfortable in your own home. They could relax in the Airbnb because it would be private space for
  • them in the way a hotel room would be. There is no need for you to turn your lives upside down and act like groveling servants when it's not of any
  • real benefit to them other than as a kind of display where you debase yourselves and they get off on it. Why would they even feel comfortable putting you out to that extent with so little payoff, unless the payoff were psychological?
  • StatisticianPlus7834 NTA. Your husband is nuts. Move out with a kitten and let him care for his parents.

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