Girlfriend backs out of vacation at the last minute even though she already paid $500, won't give a reason why: 'I’ll end the relationship if my girlfriend cancels our holiday'

This man gave his girlfriend an ultimatum that he didn't want to give. But she left him with no answers. 

Communication is key in a relationship, but that's not always easy to do. Sometimes it's hard to speak your mind, especially if you think that you might end up hurting others. Maybe you know the truth, but you're trying to spare your partner some potentially upsetting news. But when you do this, you're only kicking the problem further down the line. It's going to bubble up eventually, and you might not like it when it does. So it's best just to leave everything out in the open, and then you can take it from there.

But that's not what this girlfriend did. She bottled up her feelings so tightly to avoid confrontation at every turn. And when a big vacation came up, she doubled down on her lack of willingness to open up. But her boyfriend wasn't quite sure what to do with that, so he came up with an ultimatum. 

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