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AITJ for refusing to help my roommate with rent after finding out she’s been secretly charging me for utilities I already pay?
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This kind of story happens in every shared living setup. One person thinks organization makes them treasurer of the house, and the other assumes decency still exists. Next thing you know, someone is treating the joint utility bill like a creative writing exercise. It is not even about the amount. It is the betrayal wrapped in politeness. You made coffee together last week, but now you’re realizing the same person also invoiced you emotionally for it.
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The worst part is how often guilt becomes the main defense. The scammer is never the villain; they are simply misunderstood and “in a tough spot.” That line always works until you realize being broke does not automatically entitle you to other people’s honesty. Living with someone means sharing space, not playing bank. If broke is the vibe, say it. People can handle messy. What kills trust is the quiet math happening behind the kindness. Once you cross that line, even a $10 light bill feels personal.
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