Management tells employees they're no longer allowed to discuss "burnout" in their 1:1s and are then surprised when the employee asks for stress leave: 'I got 7 weeks off and partial pay, and they had to cover my job'

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    "Stop reporting about office burn out? Okay, done"

    My field of work has a high turnover and high burn out rate. As a result, my company promotes transparent conversations with staff members to ensure we are all implementing self care, taking PTO as needed, and asking for managerial support when overwhelmed with tasks.
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    Last year, my work began to suffer. I was struggling losing two close family members suddenly, and was transparent in hopes they would understand why I was withdrawn and had lower productivity. My manager wrote me up as a result of my burn out, citing that I was using our 1:1's
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    inappropriately, causing stress among the team with my grief, and talking about being burnt out too much. The write up included every single 1:1 documentation of when I asked for help with burn out. Management instructed me to stop talking about burn out. No problem.
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    I stopped bringing up burn out, being transparent, and asking support. About 2 months later, I request a 7 week leave of absence; citing extreme burn out and mental health issues. Management was shocked, and angry that I did not tell them I was struggling or burning out. I handed them a copy of my write up and said "The action plan I received stated I could not talk about burn out anymore."
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    Management was scolded for inadvertently creating a hostile work environment where staff couldn't ask for support. I got 7 weeks off and partial pay, and they had to cover my job for that entire time I was out.
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    Contrantier Sweet! I hope that slammed their fragile egos back down where they belonged. Also hope you're doing okay now.
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    Contrantier Sweet! I hope that slammed their fragile egos back down where they belonged. Also hope you're doing okay now.
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    3lm1Ster The first time you said anything about burn out, or losing family members you should have been given information on reaching out to your company's EAP. As a manager, I dont want details. But i do have to have enough compassion and empathy to realize you are struggling and need someone to talk to.
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    Ok-Tomato257 Sounds like the company is scared of you leaving and making a Constructive Dismissal claim against them. Document everything and don't keep your records at work. Best of luck.
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    Ok-Tomato257 Sounds like the company is scared of you leaving and making a Constructive Dismissal claim against them. Document everything and don't keep your records at work. Best of luck.
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    A man buries his head in his hands while seated at his desk

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