Waitress refuses to cover unreliable 23-year-old coworker’s shift after she fakes a family "emergency", so coworker falsely accuses her of being toxic, in an attempt to turn manager and coworkers against her: '[They said] I should be a girl’s-girl'

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    Waitress standing with her arms crossed.
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    AITAH for refusing to cover my coworker’s shifts anymore after she lied about me?

    i (21f) work part- time at a restaurant as a senior in college. it's not terrible but the people can be... a LOT.
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    i'm one of the few employees who actually shows up on time and does side work and doesn't bail on closing
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    because of that my manager ALWAYSSS asks me to cover when someone calls out. i usually say yes because i need the money but it's exhausting sometimes there's this girl i work with "taylor" (23f) who's fake nice asf like she'll hug everyone and say "love you bestie" but then shit talk people in the break room.
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    she's late constantly AND flirts with the manager but somehow NEVER gets written up. a few weeks ago she texted me last minute asking if i could cover her friday night shift because she had "a family emergency" (as far as i know she lives alone).
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    i said no because i already had plans cuz it was my bsfs birthday dinner which we had planned for WEEKS.
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    she got passive aggressive and said "must be nice to have no empathy". then i said whatever bro i'm not covering for you the next week my manager pulled me aside and asked why i'd been "bitchy" to taylor.
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    Coworkers laughing behind the counter.
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    apparently she told him i yelled at her over scheduling and called her lazy??? literally none of that ever happened.
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    i explained the situation and showed him our texts. he said he believed me but told me to "try to be a little more understanding" next time then two days later because the universe hates me she called out again and my manager asked me "can you please cover for her?
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    she said you two worked it out". i was like um no we didn't and that i won't be covering her shifts ever again period.
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    now taylor's been giving me dirty ass looks and trying to turn our other coworkers against me.
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    one girl even said i was being "petty" because "women should support each other" and i should be a "girl's girl" like what the hell a few coworkers have also been rlly weird toward me saying that i shouldn't hold grudges but i'm like... what grudge?
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    she lied about me and tried to get me in trouble but now I'm the one who's difficult?
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    i feel like all i did was set a boundary and everyone hates me for it so AITAH for refusing to ever cover her shifts again?
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    Stressed young woman on a call.
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    NTA PsiBlaze But since your manager is taking her side, it's a NO to EVERY shift to be covered until you find a new job. Your manager is officially as bad as Taylor.
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    MTClarity I'm pretty sure a hard worker who takes extra shifts can get another job in like an hour. Leave this dysfunctional mess and find a better dysfunctional place to work.
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    JeffInVancouver I guess Taylor's flirting with the boss is paying off for her. NTA.
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    LooseProduce9519 They are only acting like that to you because now they are being asked to cover her shifts and they don't want to do it.
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    cthulularoo Looks like you can add a few more people to not cover. They can start covering each other. Explain to the boss that you will not be covering for someone who lies about you. End of story. Its not your job to cover people, you're doing them and the company a favor. That favor can be rescinded at any time. NTA
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    InnocentlyInnocent You need to stop covering for others because it has now become expected of you instead of being appreciated. Talk to your manager about this and say that you want to be a team player and help the team but if it becomes toxic and hostile maybe it's not working.
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    curiousblondwonders "Tell Taylor to own up to her lies that I have proof of or it wont change on my part" Nta
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    NTA j_jqqq I expect the poor treatment you're experiencing from other co- workers is due to her bad- mouthing you. Let them cover for her if they're so ready to take her side.
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    Consistent_Ad_6642 NTA. The manager is useless. Why ask if you'll cover if she said you worked it out? The manager knows she's SAF and letting her get away with it.

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