Man lies his way into a job he’s super unqualified for with a fabricated resume, progresses by obsessively self-teaching under pressure through "trial-by-fire", ends up becoming legitimate expert in his field: ‘Ashamed of how I got my foot in the door’

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  • My friend lied to get his current high-paying job, and it's a wild story.

    A good friend of mine once confessed how he got his start in his career, and it's a story that has stuck with me for years.
  • He basically fabricated his resume for a role he was nowhere near qualified for. The first interview, against all odds, went surprisingly well.
  • The experience he invented seemed to be exactly what they were looking for. Before he could really process it, he was in the final round, and then he had an offer.
  • He accepted, even though he was terrified. The moment he started, the reality of the situation crashed down on him.
  • He was completely out of his depth, facing a mountain of work he had no clue how to tackle.
  • He told me he was in a constant state of panic, just trying to survive each day.
  • He spent his nights glued to his computer, devouring tutorials, reading forums, and connecting with people in the industry on LinkedIn who shared their knowledge, thankfully without knowing the full story.
  • Stressed employee leaning on his desk
  • It was a brutal trial- by-fire. Day by day, he pieced together how to do the job, learning from every mistake.
  • Slowly but surely, he started to understand the work's complexities. That gnawing feeling of being an imposter began to recede as his actual skills started to grow.
  • It was an incredible struggle, but he was hell-bent on proving to himself that he could actually earn the position he'd lied his way into.
  • It's now been twelve years since he took that leap. Today, he's a respected expert in his field, a real testament to what pure grit and determination can do.
  • The lie that opened the door became the catalyst for a genuine success story built on perseverance.
  • He admits he's of two minds about it. One part of him is incredibly proud of what he accomplished against the odds, but another part is deeply ashamed of how he got his foot in the door.
  • I'm the only person he's ever told, and honestly, even knowing him as well as I do, it's hard to picture him ever doing something like that.
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  • factors_wafts4a Nice. This is what two of my good friends usually do to get their jobs, they lie. They expect me to do the same thing but I just don't have the guts to do it. I feel like I'd screw up an answer in the interview. Also, I don't want a job for more pay just to not know what I'm doing the first couple of months. But hey, good for him.
  • sevenfiftynorth I expect that a great many people could grow into most roles if given the chance, including CEO, Senator, etc. We don't want to try it with doctor or pilot though.
  • trumpmumbler I did the exact same thing thing, back when "the internet" and online database tools were first becoming a thing. I lied my arse off to get a VP role in charge of the data, research and deployment of apps to make that data viable internally (for manufacturing) and externally (for subscribed clients who sold accessories we provided). Committed to a full-blown, ready for prime time completed project in 90 days of hire. I did it, an my career took off. That was in 1998, and I've never
  • rmce101 What industry or job type? Curious if this is possible in many roles
  • Icedcoffeewarrior A lot of boomers and gen X were able to lie about things that millennials and gen z can't lie about. A background check today can quickly verify education, companies worked as well as the months and years and even job title.
  • TheFlyingCzechman Lying is absolutely fine during interview as long as you accept that you might get caught and just move on. It's a game you don't always win. Had a friend who got a Senior Unix Admin role in the same fashion as you decribe, barely heard from him for 4 months, now when I need some unix stuff, he's the one I call first.
  • Hot-Requirement9192 I have the same story. It's worked in my favor always.

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