Grocery store manager treats employee like enemy #1 for no reason, so he secretly quits mid-shift and leaves her hanging: 'I didn't have to tolerate being talked to like that.'

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  • "AITA for walking out on my boss after she yelled at me?"

    Grocery store manager treats employee like enemy #1 for no reason, so he secretly quits mid-shift and leaves her hanging: 'I didn't have to tolerate being talked to like that.'
  • This happened at my last job when I worked as a cashier at a grocery store.
  • I had worked there for 5 years almost a decade ago and returned because I needed money to save up for plane tickets to visit my girlfriend at the time.
  • So I knew all the people both coworkers and the regulars. Enter my boss who we'll call Lucy.
  • Lucy is a hard woman to get along with. Resting bitch face + bulldog and an attitude and demeanor to fit.
  • She was the type of person if you could get her to crack a smile or laugh, it felt like you'd won something because it was such a hard earned and rare thing for her to do.
  • I felt very grateful to her for giving me this job after all these years especially since we had worked together at the store before.
  • And things were okay at first. I felt like I flew a bit under the radar with her.
  • Then things started to progressively get worse and worse. She stopped scheduling me for shifts or would only schedule me for the late night shifts so I'd have to drive home in the dark.
  • She kept assigning me to registers that had a lot of issues and then would get frustrated with me when the register would inevitably stop working.
  • Anytime I would ask her for clarification on directions or duties, she'd talk to me like I was the biggest moron who worked there.
  • Yet often when I tried to do things without clarifying first and just assume i could do things on my own, I'd get reprimanded for not coming to her in the first place.
  • For 6 months things were like this. Not every day was bad but it was often enough that I started to feel a lot of anxiety while on shift with her.
  • There were several times I worked on registers that broke in some way (one of them, the scanner gun stopped working; another time my scale and the scanner there stopped working so I tried using the gun to scan every item instead) and I tried to finish out my shift without telling her about them because it caused me so much distress having to ask her for help or get in trouble for the register not working while I was on it yet again.
  • Cut to the final issue. I was getting ready and making plans to finally move across the country to go be with my girlfriend.
  • Grocery store manager treats employee like enemy #1 for no reason, so he secretly quits mid-shift and leaves her hanging: 'I didn't have to tolerate being talked to like that.'
  • I had plans to leave in about 2 months and I wanted to let Lucy know while also trying to somehow soothe things between us.
  • So I wrote my 2 months notice in a 3 page letter where I thanked her for giving me the job and told her the story of my journey to go and be with the woman I love.
  • It was full of gratitude and niceties for Lucy, framing our relationship as more mutually friendly than it actually was, as I was trying to highlight the good times with her and appeal to her sentimentality.
  • I also gave her a $25 gift card to a local restaurant that I had heard was her favorite.
  • Yes. A bribe, essentially, "I know I am leaving soon but please just be nice to me until then." Apparently she saw through this and not only didn't appreciate my attempt to manipulate whatever was left of her good nature but it also made her ANGRY.
  • The next shift I saw her I asked her about a scheduling issue I had for the next week and she was short and very brusque with me.
  • She didn't say anything about the letter or gift card but I didn't let it bother me.
  • I went to work on the register I had been assigned for the day. Behind me, she was laughing and joking with another cashier, one of her besties, Trixie, so I started to feel good, like maybe she was in a good mood today.
  • When the next cashier came in for her shift, she came over to my register and told me that Lucy wanted us to switch and that I was supposed to go on register 1.
  • Not a big deal. I liked register 1, although the register right next to it, 2, was a bit of a pill.
  • It was always breaking, and the bagging corral was loose on the axel and could slide right off if you didn't turn it carefully.
  • I go over to 1 and start turning on the computer to get it ready. Lucy is on register 2 taking a few customers which was something that she as a manager would do sometimes if the lines were really long.
  • Grocery store manager treats employee like enemy #1 for no reason, so he secretly quits mid-shift and leaves her hanging: 'I didn't have to tolerate being talked to like that.'
  • I didn't think anything of it because the other cashier had specifically told me Lucy wanted me on register 1.
  • But when I turned on the light to start opening, she turns around to look at me and practically roared at me, "I SAID OPEN ON 2!!!" As if I had deliberately disobeyed her.
  • I apologized and told her what I was told and then stood there awkwardly while she finished up with her current customer and then got off the register so I could switch in.
  • As I stood there, feeling humiliated and confused about her aggressive behavior towards me, especially after my letter and gift, I debated just turning off my register and leaving.
  • Especially as she then proceeded to joke and laugh with Trixie again a couple registers over.
  • I realized whatever bad day she was having was specific to me for some reason. I also realized that I was leaving this dumb place soon anyway and didn't have to tolerate being talked to like that.
  • So when Trixie came over to take over my register for my lunch break, when I went over to the time clock, I punched out for the day instead and slipped out the front doors.
  • Without a word to anybody. AITAH? Should I have at least had a conversation with my manager or finished out my shift before leaving?

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