Restaurant manager laughs at employee when he asks for 2 consecutive days off after working 6 day weeks since starting: 'He literally laughed in his face'

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    "Boss Laughed In Husband’s Face When He Asked For 2 Days Off"

    My husband started a job at a (corporate) restaurant in May/June. He put his availability on his application as Mon-Sat 6 am to 6 pm. Lo and behold, I guess the management took this as he is willing to work 6 days a week no matter what.
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    In the past, it was my understanding (and his) that putting you were available for all that time does not mean you will work all that time. Days off are included. But for this position? Nope I guess not.
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    So he has been working since May/June 6 days a week, 4 days off per month, if that. He also has had a couple periods where he worked 14+ days in a row covering for the managers VACATION.
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    EVERY SINGLE PERSON in the restaurant gets 2 days off except for my husband. INCLUDING MANAGEMENT. We were lucky to get him 5 days off to go on a short vacation for a concert a couple weeks ago, but other than that, the most time he has had off is 1 day a week, if that.
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    He is getting extremely burnt out, and overwhelmed and it is effecting his mental health and physical health. So this morning I helped him type up an official, signed, change of availability.
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    We were respectful, but said that he could no longer work 6+ days a week, and would no longer be available Sundays or Mondays. His manager does not speak English, so I even typed one in Spanish for the manager. Printed both the English and Spanish versions, had him sign them both, and take them to work.
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    He took it into work, handed it to his boss, and his boss read it. He literally LAUGHED IN HIS FACE, and handed it back to my husband. My husband was dumbfounded and took it to the boss' wife (the assistant GM) who also does not speak English, and he told her in Spanish that he was serious.
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    A few hours later, his boss came to him and said "we can maybe get you Sunday and Wednesday" and my husband said no. Sunday and Monday are not available. The manager walked away and said nothing. I have been boiling angry on my husband's behalf since. What a prick.
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    Phosis21 Just don't go in on Sundays or Mondays. You gave them your availability, stick to it. Be prepared for them to fire you, but here's the secret - there's always work in the Service Sector.
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 My husband doesn't have a drivers license and is severely dyslexic so he gets worried/scared to move on anywhere. He just left another corporate restaurant after 5 years for this one, so he's trying to stick it out and not be a "job hopper" (his words) I am trying to be empathetic of his feelings but also help him!
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    Alert-Artichoke-2743 Unclear outcome. It sounds like he won? The douchebag owner refused, then made a counteroffer, had his counteroffer refused, then did not threaten termination. If he was prepared to stand his ground, he did not signal this by giving your husband the last word. His treatment of your husband is awful, but it DOES sound like your husband won.
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 Well, it doesn't help that he doesn't speak English, so their communication is typically short anyway. I guess we will see on the next schedule. I hope there isn't retaliation/cut hours on his other days because of it. I'm not looking forward to what comes (unless he just does what my husband put for his availability)
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    nncstc reading this made my blood boil
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 Same friend. I have been angry all day.
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    phallic-baldwin Pro tip: don't ask for the day off. You simply let them know that you will not be available that day and they can manage to find somebody to cover that shift. Hence them being the managers.
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 That's why we did an official typed and signed change of availability, instead of just a "hey boss I could really use a 2nd day off" kinda thing.
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    SweetMaam Easy solution. Take Sunday and Monday off. If scheduled, don't show up.
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 That's what I'm going to tell him to do!
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    Paulbac Unrealistic expectations. You can't really demand 2 days off in a row every week in the service industry and expect to get it. Especially when you been there less than 6 months
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    OP Immediate-Patient-31 Respectfully, I severely disagree. He has been there more than 6 months at this point, he has become the most reliable person there (no one of the original crew from when he started is still there) and asking for 2 consecutive days off when EVERYONE ELSE gets that, is not unrealistic. Bad take.
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    Chadwick Farthouse "EVERY SINGLE PERSON in the restaurant..." There's the problem. The restaurant industry is garbage.
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    ElTupacabraXXX The moment we stop letting them walk all over us is the moment we become a problem to them. His managers are jerks and likely intentionally burning him out.
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    RockyLM Another, tell me you're American without telling me you're American, type of situation.
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    Electronic-Sell-6402 Absolutely not unrealistic. Availability is availability. And it often changes. I made schedules for years in a restaurant filled with college kids. I knew the schedule was going to massively change each semester, summer and Christmas... That's the nature of being a manager at a restaurant. I have had many brand new employees who had two or even three days off in a row. Now if they only put availability for the good shifts, I didn't give them more than one good shift, and wh

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