Dog owner buys winter clothes for her beloved dog, then gets told by boyfriend that clothes are only for humans, she decides to break up with him: ‘I can't live with this guy’

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  • Pug dog in clothes walking on snow in park, title: "You will never understand unless you love a dog"
  • BF said I am “overdoing it” because I bought my dog clothes

    So, I was buying some thin-fabric clothes for my dogs. I live in a tropical country, and being January now it gets cold especially at night.
  • And this weather will run until early March. So, I was telling him what I was getting and suddenly he blurted out with "don't buy your dog clothes, don't treat them like humans.
  • They're animals, they don't need clothes." I was also getting my dogs cotton scarves. I don't use nylon collar with names for my dogs when they're at home so having some little colorful fabric collars would make them look cute.
  • So, I told him I didn't like the "overdoing part and they're animals part"like he said and he got even angrier and again repeatedly telling me I am overdoing it.
  • I told him, you will never understand unless you own and love a dog. I can't live with this guy.
  • Really need to let him go this year. How do you feel whenever you hear someone tells you "they're just animals" to your beloved pets?
  • Woman in Hoodie with Dog in Clothes
  • Thank you for reading. I already checked out and bought my stuff.
  • D-Laz I crochet my dog some sweaters. He loves them. Also I am a dude. And anyone telling me how to take care of my puppers can get stuffed.
  • Maleficent-Hawk-318 It doesn't really bother me when people say that to me, but tbh I don't think I could be in a romantic relationship with someone who thinks that way. My dogs are too important to me, and the differing attitudes are likely to keep causing issues down the line. Plus it's kind of a jerk move to belittle something harmless and fun that your partner enjoys, and dressing up your dog in cute accessories qualifies as harmless fun in my book. Not something I personally really do, but
  • oceanduciel I'm personally of the opinion that dogs don't need clothes unless the situation calls for it (extreme weather, recovery from injury, surgery or illness) but I also don't police other people's decisions about their dogs as long as the dogs are happy and healthy.
  • vesperish Break up with that manchild as soon as possible. Dogs are family.
  • Kind-therapy-829 I don't keep those people around. My dogs (and animals in general) are much more peaceful and loving than all humans i met. Those who say "they are just animals" are not to be trusted in my opinion
  • MyMango88 "It's just a dog". Ummm. NO. They have feelings, they have emotions, they eat and relieve themselves. They get hot and they get cold and they get thirsty and they rely on humans to care for them and make good choices for them. My dogs have an entire seasonal wardrobe! Whether anyone likes it or not my circle gets smaller and smaller as I get older (unless they're dogs!)
  • CartographerExtra395 Re-home him on Bumble or whichever rehoming app he likes. Give him a good reference. Maybe you have a single friend. If it doesn't work then he goes to the shelter Don't blame yourself. You've done all you could here
  • Tall-Committee-2995 Buddy you like what you like. Put your dog in dog clothes, it's fun and they're cute.
  • Thebatman91939 BFs are temporary, dogs are forever
  • Working-Addendum-28 Well, probably going against the general trend on this but clothes for dogs? Sorry, anything beyond a jumper or similar to keep them warm on cold days, no way. Its undignified to dress a dog in 'human' outfits. They are not fashion accessories. Yes, they are more than 'just a dog', I agree wholeheartedly, but they are also sentient creatures with a great deal of dignity, and to treat them like some dress-up doll is demeaning. Same for having their fur dyed.
  • OP Some_Difficulty9312 Yes, totally agree. And nope, not a dress, I don't do that but just a plain thin cloth to keep them a bit warmer when it gets cold at night.

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