Woman cancels $1,200 group vacation rental booking after friends ignore her requests to pay their share

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  • Young woman sitting on a bench using a laptop while talking on her phone, looking concerned.
  • AITJ for canceling a group vacation rental after nobody paid me their share and I was stuck with the full bill

    A group of us were planning a weekend trip for our friends 30th birthday. Five of us total.
  • We found a really nice rental house and everyone agreed to split it evenly. The total was around 1200 bucks so about 240 each.
  • The booking required full payment upfront and I offered to put it on my card because I had the best rewards rate and everyone said theyd send me their share that week.
  • That was almost a month ago. Nobody has sent me a cent. I reminded them in the group chat after the first
  • Everyone said oh sh sorry Ill send it tonight. Nobody sent anything. I reminded them individually a week later.
  • Young woman sitting at a table in low light, resting her head on her hand while looking at her phone.
  • Got a mix of I totally forgot and I get paid friday. Friday came and went.
  • One person literally hearted my venmo request and then never opened venmo. Meanwhile Im sitting here with 1200 dollars on my credit card for a trip that is supposed to happen in ten days.
  • I agreed to spend 240. Not 1200. I am not the groups credit card. I am not a bank.
  • I did not volunteer to front a thousand dollars for people who cant be bothered to open a payment app.
  • I sent one final message in the group chat. I said hey I need everyones share by tomorrow night or Im canceling the booking and getting my refund.
  • Two people said okay okay and one person said youre being so dramatic its not like were not going to pay you.
  • Tomorrow night came. One person sent their share. One. Out of four. I canceled the booking.
  • Got my refund minus a small fee. Then I sent a message to the group saying I canceled because I cant afford to cover everyone and the deadline passed.
  • I said I was happy to help rebook if everyone pays upfront this time. The birthday friend doesnt know yet but everyone else is furious.
  • I feel bad because this was supposed to be something nice for our friends birthday. But I spent a month asking for money that nobody sent and I wasnt about to eat a thousand dollars because everyone assumed I would just deal with it.
  • AITJ
  • Decent-Leg1581 One of them hearted your venmo request and still didnt pay thats not forgetfulness thats just assuming youll eat the cost because youre too nice to make it weird
  • summerliechen NTJ. You gave them plenty of reminders and a clear deadline, it's not fair for you to be stuck paying $1200 because everyone else couldn't send their share. Canceling was the responsible thing to do imo
  • maddiecinder Not the j 1. A month of reminders and people still didn't pay. That's not forgetful, that's them hoping you'd just cover it. You gave a deadline and stuck to it. Group trips turn into chaos the second money gets ignored.
  • Cumisha Jones Spend the $240 and take the birthday person out alone
  • Gold_Amount295 NTJ, but find better friends. Are they ususally that flaky and cheap?
  • mcmurrml They had no intention of paying you.
  • Pretend Vermicelli646 Change friends.
  • Jolly-Raspberry4017 NTJ- in that time they could have even made several smaller payments to you to get it paid. They are the jerks. I'm proud of you for your healthy boundaries! I'm also curious about how they reacted when you told them you'd canceled?
  • HeftyAcanthisitta661 You learned a valuable lesson and so did your so called friends
  • New-User9585 You offered to front the money then it suddenly became your responsibility to follow up with everyone about their shares. Honestly I wouldn't want to spend a weekend with these people. You'd probably end up doing all the chores while everyone else said they'd do it later. NTJ

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