55-year-old tells 46-year-old wife to get a job after she insists that they keep working overtime

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  • Hardworking employee takes a break from his job.
  • Am I wrong for telling my wife to get a job if she wants to subsidize the kids?

    Up until our youngest kid graduated from university I worked crazy hours out of town to pay for everything.
  • I worked six weeks on of twelve hours days. Then I would get three weeks off.
  • That works out to 56 hours a week if you average it out. I've been doing that since I was thirty five years old.
  • It allowed my wife to stay at home and take care of the kids and the house.
  • We also used it to pay off our mortgage as well as but new cars for cash whenever we needed.
  • I'll describe our budget so you guys can judge. After taxes we used my take-home to pay the mortgage and bills.
  • We then paid into the kids college funds. Then into our retirement fund. Then we topped up our retirement
  • We put money iinto our emergency fund. Then whatever was left we split 50/50. Our tax refund was our vacation fund.
  • Now I'm fifty five and I'm tired. My body is beat and I need to slow down.
  • Our kids are both through university. Both got their degrees and have jobs. I did my part.
  • The company I work for had a job open for an office job. I applied and got it.
  • It is a 9-5 city job. Forty hours a week. Better hourly rate plus other compensation.
  • However it is alot less money without the overtime. I was getting 44 hours a week of overtime.
  • That's huge. But we have money in the bank and I have an easy stretch until I retire.
  • My wife however is upset. Both kids are "struggling". For the record they live at home rent free.
  • Smiling college graduates receive their diplomas.
  • But they want cars and apartments of their own. They can afford that. They just won't be getting luxury cars and huge apartments.
  • We no longer have a mortgage and my wife and I are both driving vehicles purchased in the last three years.
  • Still under warranty. Our budget no longer has education funds either. We still have more than we need and my wife and I each have $1,000 each month to spend however we want.
  • I am saving up for a new garage/shop. My wife has been giving hers to the kids.
  • She is hinting that I should also contribute. I think I have contributed enough. I told her to get a job.
  • She is only forty six. She can go to work and give them her salary. I still provide housing and food for all of them.
  • So she won't starve or anything. Her and the kids think that I'm being cruel and one of the little sh..s said I was being lazy by cutting my hours so much.
  • This is my hill to di on. I've done the hard work long enough. I want to enjoy my life.
  • Am I the a hle for telling her to get a job and give them her money?
  • Worker reaches for tool during a long shift.

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