Boss harasses employee for leaving work at 5 PM exactly, claims he's leaving earlier than 5 PM according to her watch: 'It's just breaking my spirit.'

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Emmy Pratt • Senior Editor
Aug 28, 2026 1:00 PM EDT

Why should he stay later than that?

I've never understood offices where employees stay late on purpose to prove to their bosses they're dedicated. If anything, I think staying late at work shows your boss you're bad at time management, but not everyone agrees with me. A lot of bosses want their employees to stay past the time when their workday ends, and the boss in this story is one of them. She thinks her employee's clock is off, but doesn't get why he doesn't think leaving a couple of minutes early is worth commenting on. 

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  • Man in blue dress shirt and black pants standing on gray concrete stairs
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    The employee left his office at 5:00 on the dot, much to his boss's chagrin.

    Individual pictured is a model used for illustrative purposes.

  • My boss hates that I leave work at 5 PM.

    I finish at 5pm. I don't leave before 5pm. But 5pm I turn off the computer and I'm off. For some reason she's mad about this.
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  • She sounds like she's just looking for an excuse to be petty

    Today, at 5pm, I went to wash a cup from my desk and she said I was leaving early. She said my watch must be fast, because hers wasn't 5pm. Bearing in mind, she can go any time she likes.
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  • It's just breaking my spirit.
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  • The boss doesn't care how many hours he worked! She just wants to control the people around her and feel like she has power.

    RowdyB666 If your watch is fast you must have started early too. Same hours worked, just slightly offset from hers. Ask to synchronise watches.
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  • She would get so annoyed by the time wasted from watch syncing, she'd just tell the employee to forget it.

    BusyBullet This is the best response. Make her work for it. Synchronize your watch with her every morning. If you don't have a watch it would be worth it to buy one just to do this to her.
    via u/BusyBullet
  • A couple of people that are wearing watches
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    Two people syncing their watches so they read the exact same time at all times.

    Image depicted solely for explanatory purposes.

  • No_Internal9345 Demand an official NTP to sync to.
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  • BusyBullet That's also a good idea since she won't have any idea what it means or how to do it. I still like taking a minute or two out of her day every single day. I would synchronize my watch to the second, which means having her wait until the exact second the minute changes. I mean, it's important to her and you want to do the right thing. You might even have to sync your watch multiple times a day, or at least check in with her.
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  • It's wild that they didn't have a way to distinguish between people with the same first names. Should one Jeff pay for the sins of all the others?

    BusyBullet I had a situation in an office job where we logged our hours on the computer. Management wanted us to log just the hours of our scheduled shifts but I clocked in when I actually arrived and started working because of a previous issue where I was accused of being late too many times. There were five people with my first name in this office and every time any of them were late I got dinged for it. I spent a couple of days (on company time) gathering work files, emails, phone and compute
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  • This just goes to show that it's good to be thorough about documenting your work, even if you don't think it will ever amount to anything.

    Anyway, with the time thing, my boss and I had the same conversation every couple of weeks and each time I informed her that I would be logging the actual hours I worked because of their previous mistakes. She said it didn't matter because we didn't get OT and I reminded her that I wanted to prove that I was not late plus I wasn't comfortable lying about the time I worked. So if I started working at 8:13 I clocked in at 8:13 and if I stayed until 5:35 that's when I clocked out. Eventually someon
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  • Talk about karma for his boss!

    The rest of the office got nothing because they just put 9:00 to 5:00 whether they came in early or worked late. It was a nice windfall around Christmas time. Also, my boss was unhappy because she stayed late and came in early all the time and got nothing for it. Work your hours. If you want to be safe, start two minutes early and work two minutes late but log that time.
    via u/BusyBullet

  • If you work a salaried job and don't know whether you're exempt or non-exempt, you should look into it

    maydayvoter11 this is a very important point. Most people think that US employees are either salaried or hourly. But there are actually three categories: hourly, salary/non-exempt (i.e., not exempt from labor laws about being paid by the hour), and salary/exempt. The salary/non-exempt still have to track hours and be paid by hours. Yes, this is a gross oversimplification, but the point is that not all "salary" jobs are "we own your a and you get paid the same no matter how much you work."
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  • That's one good way to get fired

    Ok Serve_4099 Tell her in 2026 phones sync their times automatically and you tend to trust att over her.
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  • Two people are holding and looking at phones
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    Two people syncing their cell phones to the same time.

    Recreated scenario included to enhance reader understanding.  

  • Not everybody is as slow walking to their car as he is.

    johnboy11a I worked for narcissist years ago that did the same. My hours were 8-430. He sent out a company wide email one day about how he could set his watch by how he sees "certain people's cars" leaving every day promptly at 433. I quite enjoyed that someone had the balls to reply all with "if the warehouse guys are done at 430, then you really should be able to expect to see them driving away at 433"
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  • zealotlee Yeah one of my old jobs was like this. These are the hours I'm expected to work. Oh there's stuff left in the queue? That's why you have the one or two people that work a staggered shift to finish out the stuff that came in before closing! Sorry if I don't devote my whole being to your email marketing company.
    via u/zealotlee

  • If you're working late, you should be given some grace for when you're a couple of minutes late the next morning.

    DW171 I had a boss that gave me the riot act for coming in 10 minutes late on a Friday morning after a week of working until 7:00 or 8:00pm on salary. I fixed the "problem" by working 8-5 and leaving promptly, no matter what fire needed fighting. I got a much better job a couple months later.
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  • He is either an idiot, or he's lying through his teeth.

    short_and_floofy i had a boss who loooooved to catch you as you were leaving and pull you into a "chat", it was a meeting. and he'd drone on about his dumb ideas for 30 minutes typically. dude got mad when i was clocking those hours and either getting OT or choosing to leave early on Fridays. he thought our "chats" were just friendly outside work hours hangs...where all we did was talk about work
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  • Or have they always been around?

    darth_wasabi There seems to be more clock watchers becoming managers in the last few years.
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