A while back, I was "friends" with this snotty girl who was actually going through some hard stuff- divorced parents, an older sister on drugs, and her father was abusive. I can remember how she'd call me up, and I would pause to try and see if I could tell if she just wanted to hang or she really needed an empathetic friend. Granted, most of the time she was a complete and total beotch to me, but sometimes she was truly nice, and I totally understand the divorced parents thing, since I've gone