if you're extended family are all right-wing, Mormon, cattle ranchers, be careful of the "alternative" lifestyles you adopt. Announcing that you are a Democrat will result in lively political discussions. Announcing that you are bisexual will result in a lot of "but you still like the boys, right?" followed by various attempts to set you up on blind dates. Announcing that you are a vegetarian will mean that you are no longer welcome at family parties. #LFmy cousins and myF