Attention-Seeking Bridesmaid Posts Picture Of Bride In Wedding Dress During The Final Fitting On Facebook

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AmyBrown
Jun 18, 2019 2:00 PM EDT

Seriously? Pretty damn sure that everyone knows that is a big no-no. The poor bride was gutted, as the dress was to be a surprise (as most, if not all wedding dresses are) for her husband-to-be and her father. Unsure of how to go about the situation and wanted to make sure she wasn't just overreacting, she posted in an online forum Mumnet asking for advice. Over 600 commented on the thread, completely backing her right to be upset. And girl, we got your back, too! What this bridesmaid did was beyond uncool. To all future bridesmaids out there -- DON'T DO THIS. 

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    Text - Bridesmaid posted a photo of my dress on Facebook (686 Posts) Titsntats sat 15-Jun-19 07:21:29 Add message | Report I know I probably am but just wanted to hear others opinions on whether they would be sad about it or if I just need to get a grip! Getting married soon and after trying on a lot of different dresses I finally found the one, something I never thought I would due to being very body conscious and anxious. Went back for final fitting at the weekend and took one of my bridesmaid
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    Text - After finishing the appointment and getting home I saw that she had posted a photo of me in the dress on Facebook (during the appointment so it had already been on an hour or two when I saw it) and tagged my partner in it saying she bets he couldn't wait to marry me and how lovely my dress is. When I asked her to remove it her response was 'it doesn't matter if he's seen it he's a man so he will have forgotten what it looks like in 5 minutes time'. My dad had also seen it as well and it w
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    Text - I just don't know what to do or how to feel! I am so gutted that it now won't be a surprise to my partner or my dad. She knew how much that meant to me and the only thing I had asked for was that details of how I will look on the day were kept a surprise from my dad and partner. As I paid in instalments the dress is now fully paid for and I don't have time to get another one and do all the alterations etc. Someone tell me I will stop feeling like this soon!
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    Text - RickAstleyGaveMeUp Sat 15-Jun-19 07:24:12 Add message | Report Sack the bridesmaid don't worry, your dress will look different when your hair and makeup are done etc. Try not to let it spoil the day. Bodear Sat 15-Jun-19 07:24:13 Add message| Report When did all this happen OP? Has the photo been taken down? Sirzy Sat 15-Jun-19 07:24:31 Add message Report I would be angry at that one. You don't share pictures of someone else's wedding dress before the wedding! I would make it very clear o
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    Text - Add message | Report Nanny0gg Sat 15-Jun-19 07:23:23 I hope you will, but she's a cow and should no longer be your bridesmaid. Your day will still be special though. I promise! MrsW85 Sat 15-Jun-19 07:23:30 Add message | Report I would be furious! l'd be seriously considering if she would be coming to the wedding! steff13 Sat 15-Jun-19 07:23:40 Add message | Report It doesn't matter in the long run. But I how devastated you must feel. I don't think she sounds like much of a friend, person
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    Text - MrsMozartMkll Sat 15-Jun-19 07:25:38 Add message | Report I'd ditch her. To break her promise and your trust like that is horrible and not what a friend should even think of doing. NauseousMum Sat 15-Jun-19 07:25:46 Add message | Report She's an attention seeking POS. She wanted the likes and to be the first to show. You have every right to feel disapointed and hurt. If i saw a photo like that i would think your bridesmaid was a shit friend and attention seeker!
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    Text - IceCreamSoda99 Sat 15-Jun-19 07:24:38 Add message | Report She a massive b*tch or a complete idiot, I'd be furious and you are not unreasonable in the slightest! Did she take it down? If not report the image. TestingTestingWonTooFree Sat 15-Jun-19 07:25:27 Add message | Report Very bad form on her part. What's done is done. You can either let it spoil your wedding or you can get over it. I'd try and get over it. Ihatehashtags Sat 15-Jun-19 07:25:35 Add message | Report That is a bitchy ho
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    Text - Sparkletastic Sat 15-Jun-19 07:28:56 Add message |Report This sounds like deliberate sabotage. I would tell her she's no longer a bridesmaid. Are there any ways that you could accessorise the dress differently? I know you are sad that the surprise element is gone but your wedding day will still be the first time your DP and DF see you in your dress in 3D. As long as you feel beautiful that's all that matters. Laura221 Sat 15-Jun-19 07:29:01 Add message | Report I'm so sorry. You have ever
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