Girl Organizes Sting Operation On Cheating Boyfriend, Leaves Him Jobless And Homeless

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mattstaff
Jul 11, 2019 11:00 AM EDT

This girl discovered her now ex-boyfriend was cheating. So, she organized a "sting operation" with another woman. The cheater ends up chickless, homeless, and jobless. A pretty brutal ending for a dirtbag move on his part. 

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    revenge - Text - r/ProRevenge + JOIN u/Jenabear7897 21h 2 2 S 4 How I got revenge on my cheating ex! Hello Reddit! I don't really know where this post should go but ProRevenge seemed like a safe bet. Let me know what you think in the comments below and please enjoy. Its a long one but hopefully it'll be worth it:) TL;DR at bottom.
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    revenge - Text - This story takes place almost 12 years ago do my best with the dialog and details but admittedly some things are a little fuzzy. Most of my life I've had a problem with picking men that were not good for me, so much so that I even had a phrase for it "saving the world, one moron at a time". One of my more spectacularly bad choices was a guy by the name of "Bob" (obviously not his real name). I met Bob when I was working of my 2 jobs at the local mall, he worked somewhere else in
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    revenge - Text - Soon enough red flags began to fly, he would say things in common conversation that were simply incorrect (like there's only 4 continents and the rest are actually owned by the martian government and thus don't count etc.) and when challenged would circular talk until you either agreed with him or dropped the subject. He would also make claims that seemed entirely unbelievable such as when I asked where he had been staying prior to his mom's house he said he "camped in the woods
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    revenge - Text - Bob was unemployed for over a third of our relationship and would simply sit in the apartment watching netflix or playing some war game on "his" computer AKA my spare computer typing away in the group chat. He would never clean up after himself leaving dirty dishes in the sink and filth on every surface while only taking a shower MAYBE once a week. The smell that permeated my apartment could only be described as revolting and could easily gag maggot. I would inquire a few times
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    revenge - Text - growing amount of excuses such as "but I don't have a car, how would I get there"... "the bus doesn't run in that area... "the internet went down so I couldn't apply"... etc. etc. Meanwhile I am working double and triple shifts at my job to try to make up the lost income and running him all over town in my off time getting applications and helping him fill them out and turn them in. Keep in mind he doesn't have a cell phone so all of these apps have my contact info on them. Thus
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    revenge - Text - Things began getting weird, he began staying up later and later on this group chat, sometimes till almost dawn. Sometimes we would hang out all evening until it was time for bed. Then he would always make some excuse on why he needed to check the game before bed and he'd be right there.... hours would pass... no Bob. I began to get suspicious but nothing incriminating seemed to be taking place so I just shrugged it off as me being insecure. Then he started asking to use my to go
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    revenge - Text - super comfortable with this but I did know Ben pretty well and we got along almost better than Bob and I did soI guess to a degree I trusted Ben more than Bob and agreed to it. This happened a few times while I was working the evening shift and he was always back at the allotted time with my car and my phone and relatively grateful for the opportunity to hang with his buds. Suspicious... umm yes, but I'm the kind of person that is loyal and trusting to a fault and don't ssume an
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    revenge - Text - So one day he asks to borrow my car and go with his friends to a card gaming tournament, he put on a great show telling me how the prize money would help us out and with the deck he had there no way he could loose. I just had to let him use my car and phone this one last time and he would be able to buy himself a phone with the prize money. I wasn't a huge fan of the idea but nothing untoward had occurred in the previous instances andI didn't feel like spending my only day off a
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    revenge - Text - and had my own little personal drunk party. Hours tick by and no Bob...Eventually I pass out only to wake up at the crack of dawn VIOLENTLY sick, this went way beyond a hangover. I start retching in the bathroom until there was nothing left but bile but the retching wouldn't stop. Hours ticked by and I lay in my bathroom floor sweating and convulsing with no phone, no car and no Bob. I eventually was able to crawl to my room and wrap myself in a bath robe before crawling down my
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    revenge - Text - where I was diagnosed with an aggressive and antibiotic-resistant strain of C-Dif. Bob finally showed up later that afternoon phone and car keys in hand looking very concerned and claiming to be deeply apologetic but my mom hated him from that point on. I was out of the hospital and back to work within a few days but it was the beginning of the end. During these last months we were constantly scraping by due to his lack of consistent income
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    revenge - Text - and poor spending habits. There were jobs gotten and there were jobs lost for various reasons throughout our relationship but the final job was one I helped him get literally 3 buildings down from my own workplace. This company rents furniture and electronics on a weekly/monthly basis and I happen to know most of the employees and the hiring manager as they are regular customers at my coffee establishment. I was able to use what little sway I had to get him on there and he accep
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    revenge - Text - talks about his amazing employee discount and assures me it's no big deal that the rental fee will just come out of his check etc. I was pissed! Not only had he not consulted me, he also had me on the account as well (my info had been taken from the credit app I filled out as a favor to help their numbers) so if HE flaked I was liable. Fast forward another few weeks the rent is late and we receiving eviction notices on our door, I come home from work and the tv is mysteriously g
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    revenge - Text - A few more tense weeks go by with him working mornings and myself working evenings while shared one phone and ca... Until that fateful day arrived! I woke up that morning with a migraine headache and opted to let Bob take the car but leave me the phone so I can call someone later on for a ride to work. A few hours of uncomfortable sleep go by before I am awoken by my phone.... answer the phone still groggv "Hello?"
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    revenge - Text - There is a long pause on the other end of the line until a female voice asks "Umm is Bob there?" I felt a sickening feeling in my gut and began to shake... is this real? Am I dreaming? "No, he's at work right now this is his wife (total lie but hey) is there something I can help you with?" I wasn't rude, I phrased it as a genuine question rather than an accusation
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    revenge - Text - Another long pause before she began to stammer about maybe she had the wrong number but it was obvious she just wanted to get off the phone with me as quickly as possible and I realized in that moment that I desperately needed her. "Please" I said with an edge of desperation in my voice.. "I don't know what's going on but I just really need somebody to tell me the truth" the last word came out in a sob and I sat there for a moment in silence trying to quell the urge to just cry
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    revenge - Text - "Please, you promise?" I almost begged. "I promise" she replied "Ok" I took a deep breath and released it, "I'll talk to you soon" and hung up. I then proceeded to aggressively pace my living room floor staring at my phone while chain smoking and muttering to myself like a crazy person. I knew who she was calling... I was replaying all those little red flag moments in my head from the last few months, pinning down dates or behavior l'd found suspect when the phone rings again. I
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    revenge - Text - After initial introductions June (again not the real name) and I began comparing stories and it became glaringly obvious what was happening... They had actually been in a relationship several years prior and had run back into each other on the aforementioned war game where they began to flirt on group chat. All those nights he'd been on the computer he'd been chatting with her. All those times he'd go hang out with his "friend's"
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    revenge - Text - he been using my car to take her out and my phone to communicate with her. The time sick and alone with NO resources... you guessed it... he was with her! Oh but it get's better... "Do you have a little silver hummingbird necklace?" she inquired."Yes, my mother gave it for my 27th birthday actually I love it" "Really?" she said "Cause he gave me one for mother's day" "OMG" I almost yelled into the phone as I ran to my room and tore through my jewelry box... it wasn't in there...
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    revenge - Text - From there we discovered not only had he been giving her my property as gifts but he'd had her over to our apartment passing it off as his own. didn't want to believe him capable of doing something so cruel and disrespectful when I have allowed him to sponge off me for the better part of 3 years. Unfortunately as in confirmation she began describing my apartment to a T, all the way down to my bed sheets. June said he even pulled my "secret box" from beneath my bed and offered to
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    revenge - Text - uttered the words I didn't knowI wanted to hear" "You know what we should do? We should bust him together." My mind immediately started racing, indeed should! I was a mix of fury, adrenaline and despair so my thinking wasn't exactly strait and details begin to get hazy here. We arrange to meet up at my work and find a way to lure Bob over there but unfortunately she lived about 40 min away whereas I only live about 6 miles from our destination so if I got there first I'd need to
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    revenge - Text - stall him (assuming he wasn't out on a delivery). I called a trusted coworker of mine at work sobbing and begging for a ride...to his everlasting credit he got somebody to cover and LEFT WORK to come get me and bring me to my car. When I got to Bob's workplace I went inside to retrieve my keys (this isn't uncommon as they know the car is mine) and was stopped half way through store by Bob's manager wanting to talk about the payment due on "our account" don't remember the exact d
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    revenge - Text - had begged Bob to take it back and now we don't have it anymore as Bob has pawned it and I don't have the money to get it out let alone pay him. I was full on blubbering at this point when he stopped me to clarify that his EMPLOYEE pawned a rental TV under contract. I confirmed that this was indeed true and presented him with the pawn ticket. HE WAS MAD!!Apparently such an act is illegal and is terms for immediate termination but he assured me that if I could get the TV back to
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    revenge - Text - My heart is pounding in my chest and blood roaring in my ears... what was I going to say? What was HE going to say? Would June make it here before he did?? My heart sinks when I Bob's hulking form making it's way in my direction, I frantically scan the parking lot for June's car... she's not here yet and I'm out of time. He hits the door looking out of breath and guilty as hell and I just stare at him stone faced. I walk outside silently to light a cigarette unsure of exactly wh
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    revenge - Text - "it's all just a terrible misunderstanding" and I just let him dig himself deeper into his hole of lies. I listen, I nod, I pretend to understand until a particular car pulls into view. June parks in the space directly next to where we were standing and gets out of the car... "Hey Bob, how ya' doing?" Bob has gone visibly pale, he hangs his head and sits down on the curb saying nothing to either of us. June and I greet each other and awkwardly shake hands before again returning
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    revenge - Text - "We are done, I don't want to see you ever again. I'll pack up your things (only 2 boxes worth) and your sister can contact me in a few days to pick them up. Now I want your key." I held out my hand and looked at him. "Not until I get my stuff out, then you get your key" he replied. I tried to argue but he continued to refuse and used his large stature to his advantage knowing I'd have no chance in a physical altercation. He turned and walked away heading back toward his workpla
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    revenge - Text - left. I stood there alone staring at nothing trying to wrap my head around what had just transpired and then I cried... oh how I cried With nowhere else to turn I had only one call to make... to my mom. The moment she answered unleashed this deluge of words at her that were half sobs and half rant. "Stay right there, I'm coming" she said. God Bless my mother! Soon enough both of my parents pull up in my dad's truck and my mom gets out to comfort me and give me hugs. I look at th
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    revenge - Text - grip on the steering wheel while staring strait ahead... OH Crap! They take me to the pawn shop and my parents write a check for more than $500 to get the TV out, we then drive strait over to Bob's workplace and return the TV to the manager. As the manager finishes up the cancellation paperwork my dad spots Bob pacing around the back of the parking lot talking frantically on the phone. Unfortunately I didn't get to hear the ensuing conversation but my dad returns within a few mi
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    revenge - Text - squeeze, kissed my temple and whispered into my ear "They're firing him." I leaned back to look at my dad and he just smirked and said "Now he's jobless and homeless." I thought about it for a second before I said in my most sarcastic tone "Ohhh I'm sooo soorrryyy to hear that" We laughed about it a little and my parents gave some words of wisdom before leaving me to drive myself home where my best friend was already waiting to keep me company.
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    revenge - Text - Bob and his sister showed up a few days later for his pitiful boxes of stuff, he tried to talk to me, to explai... but my best friend descended on him like a harpy if he muttered more than a few syllables in my direction so he was shut down almost immediately. He left that night and I have never heard from him since, I blocked him on social media but there was really no need as he made no effort to contact me on any level. That's Bob... ever lazy, ever deluded and always an a**h
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    revenge - Text - forward but the point is I moved forward. I have grown leaps and bounds as a person since this experience and am truly content with where my life is now but every now and then when I'm drifting off to sleepI can't help but wonder... what ever happened to good ol' Bob? Is he out there somewhere... in the woods witha stick and his wits as his only gea... waiting for a martian government to make its move. Ah well, a girl can dream ) Thank you so much for reading and I hope you enjo
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    revenge - Text - EDIT: Since this seems to be a minor point of contention I would like to better explain the mention of Netflix early on in the post. I realize by the way it is phrased it may have given of you the wrong impressing... he was not STREAMING Netflix as streaming wasn't much of a thing then. He would just have revolving door of movies he'd chosen on disk coming and going from the house. Beyond that he busied himself playing my PS2, being a bane on society and general douchbagery.
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    revenge - Text - TL;DR: I discovered my boyfriend was cheating so I organized a sting operation with the other woman. Boyfriend ended up chickless, jobless and homeless within a matter of hours.
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