Military Spouse Accuses Woman Of Cheating On Her Husband

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mattstaff
Jun 27, 2020 1:00 PM EDT

Man, oh, man, this military spouse was on a tear. She stirred up all kinds of unnecessary conflict and tension. The best part is she was accusing a woman of cheating on her husband, with her actual husband. There's something to be said of the folks pointing the fingers and playing the blame game, as they themselves might be pulling the sleaziest moves. 

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    Text - r/MaliciousCompliance Join u/heterochromia_cat • 105d 1 01 &1 W 1 1 1 Military spouse accuses me of cheating on my husband...with my husband. XL I've been living in Japan for a little over two years with my husband. He was born here and we decided to move to his hometown. It's a small city, but there's enough to do without getting bored. I'd describe us as an AMWF couple (Asian man, white female for those who don't know). It's not so common in western countries, and it can feel like we ar
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    Text - turn around in their seat and stare at us the whole time with an open fish mouth. Coincidentally, there's a small U.S. military base located in this city. The closer you are downtown, the more American families you see. I'm constantly mistaken for being military by Americans and Japanese which is understandable. Besides myself, I only know 5 other interracial marriages here. It's always locals who ask about my 'American husband' when I'm out alone, which I respond in Japanese "Watashi no
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    Text - We don't go downtown too often since it's all pay to park and it's a nightmare to find a place. It was a beautiful warm day for the first time in months, but we decided to battle for a spot and walk around the shops. The crowd was heavy since the weather was great and winter was ending. The season for new American families to move here just finished, so l'm sure this was many peoples' first time to leisurely walk and shop outside. We find a parking spot and made our way to the outside sho
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    Text - other moms who had like, 3 kids each. They were staring at me, but perhaps we just accidentally had eye contact at the right time. "Seriously, another little homewrecker is doing this in PUBLIC?" Chill woman, you're so loud even I can hear you. We find a table nearby at the Starbucks outside. We are enjoying our drinks when the same group of women approached us with their strollers in tow. They definitely had some sort of purpose with something to say to us. Let's call her Onna (woman in
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    Text - Me: "I`m sorry? What...did we do?" Onna: "You know exactly what you're doing." *She points to my wedding ring* Me: "No, I don't..." Onna: "Good lord, does your husband know about this? Is he on a ship right now? That's soooo like a dependapotamus!" Her friends laugh. In case you don't speak military, a dependapotamus is slang for a military wife who stays at home all day, doesn't clean, uses their spouse as an ATM, and looks like Jabba the Hut. It dawns on me; she thinks l'm a military sp
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    Text - Me: "This IS my spouse. I'm actually not part of the military community and have a Japanese visa." Onna looks at my significant other up and down. The two women behind her apologize, but the Onna didn't believe it. Onna: "No one would voluntarily WANT to live in this little town. Nice lie, but you're not representing the military community. You make all of us wives look like whores! Who is your husband and what's his rank? Also I need to your dependent ID. MY husband is a high rank so he'
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    Text - Me: "Look, my husband's name is Rei (not his real name; I don't want to reveal personal info) and he's sitting right here. I'm not going to show you my military ID since I don't have one, and you're not the police. As proof, you can obviously see our wedding bands match and here's a picture." I show her my phone screen which is of us in traditional Japanese clothes on our wedding day. Her eyes became huge at the picture. Her two friends and their spawn have already started walking away. O
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    Text - Me: "STOP. The things you are saying are extremely offensive. I was part of the military community myself some years ago and what you're doing is against spousal conduct." She smirked. "Go ahead and tell people what I did, then. My high ranking husband is an E-7, and everything will be swept under the rug no matter what happens. You can't touch me." So that's what I did. Note, this is a small military community. Someone does something minor and it's talked about between wives like chicken
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    Text - uncomfortable with her remarks. She asked me if this person looked like so and so, which I said yes. My friend rolls her eyes. Friend: "She just arrived a couple months ago and is already causing problems with rumors and drama. Looks like we have a racist, too. I'll make sure what she said is passed on." It's been half a year later and I didn't hear anything about Onna again since I distanced myself from making military friends here. I've only been in my new city for a little over 2 years
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    Text - family planning, and dropped a bombshell. Friend: "Do you remember Onna, who accused you of cheating on your non-existent military spouse and called your husband a racist name?" Me: "Of course! I haven't heard anything from her since." Friend: "Well, I mentioned we were already having problems with her not long after she got here. I told my boss that there's a person who was bothering and threatening civilians and asking for IDs which isn't allowed for someone with her status. My boss was
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    Text - department! I suggested we look at her social media accounts from her past behavior, because we don't tolerate racism. It was easy to find her Twitter and Facebook, particularly Facebook since we have many mutual friends. Her SNS was SHOCKING. While she set her Facebook to private, her Twitter was littered with malicious Tweets and reTweets. This included racism slang for many nationalities, colorful language, and using her husband's military rank to bully others. She made it very clear t
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    Text - "Oh, and did I mention my boss is JAPANESE?!!" "So she comes into the interview which I was part of. I asked three good things about her which is she says 'dependent, gets things done, and friendly.' My boss just looked at her for a second before he pulled out her Tweets and asked her to explain how she can friendly serve the local community if she hates it so much. Onna was FLOORED and said someone hacked into her account, despite there being at least 3 years of slanderous Tweets. We tha
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    Text - Me: "So all of this was discovered because I told you about her accusations?" Friend: "Yes! Oh, and she's kind of an outcast socially right now because she cheated on her husband a couple months ago." There you have it folks. Because one person couldn't mind their own business, they lost a potential job and had their social media exposed. Super ironic since she became the dependapotamus and adulterer-the same thing she was accusing ME of. Edit since some posts say it's fake because my wri
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