Manipulative Son Tries To Sell Mom's House, Cancels Her Job Interview

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    Text - Posted by u/Aita333645__ 21 hours ago 20 10 8 S 17 32 AITA For kicking my son out of my house after he cancelled my job interview? Not the A-hole Please hear me out first. I'm a single mom (45) of a 20 year old son (Chris) Chris is in college. He studies engineering. Being a single mom at a young age was not easy for me. Despite everything I been through. Despite my own family giving up on me. I made sure my son got the life he deserves. He was/is my everything. I worked several jobs that
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    Text - Recently. Chris moved back in with me because he no longer could pay rent. His next semester is starting soon. And he's been talking to me about the possibility of selling my house and buying a house in the city where he studies so he will no longer pay rent and said that it was better to move. I declined for several reasons; 1 grew up here, my old friends live here. 2 the city is expensive 3 this home means a lot it represents my hard work and sacrifices.Chris didn't like that. He threw
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    Text - Yesterday. I found out that he contacted the company and cancelled my interview and then deleted my email. I use a computer and it's in the office so he gets access to it. He told me he wanted to check his college website for some reason and I thought nothing of it. That was the night before. I found out yesterday morning that someone cancelled my interview. I confronted Chris about it. First he denied then he said that the company wasn't what I deserved anyway and I can find a better pos
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    Text - I yelled at him and argued with him telling him that he was an adult and should manage his own issues. Told him to get a job but not expect me to turn my life upside down for him. He yelled back saying I was selfish and I ended up kicking him out of the house. His aunt knew and was yelling at me for what I did saying I was treating him poorly and he was hurt by me. Just to clarify his aunt is my sister. She doesn't have children of her own. And Chris considers her as a second mother to hi
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    Text - the-mirrors-truth Professor Emeritass [79] 5.4k points · 21 hours ago NTA If you ever accept in your home again, charge him rent. He's being extremely ungrateful and entitled. It is non of his aunt's business and your son needed the reality check.
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    Text - that_was_way_harsh 1.6k points · 21 hours ago NTA. If Auntie thinks you're being cruel she can take him in and see what happens.
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    Text - AprilBLH Partassipant [3] 958 points · 21 hours ago NTA and honestly that's controlling and abusive behavior on your sons part. He is crossing boundaries and trying to make decisions for you, a grown woman. His mother. He is a grown man that can move to the city when he is able to afford it and shouldn't be banking on you giving everything up so he can get what he wants.
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    Text - poofy_dinosaur Partassipant [1] 877 points · 21 hours ago NTA. You've done enough for him. He's a 20 year old adult. Nothing justifies his cancelling your interview. That's a huge breach of privacy and trust. He should get a part time job. If he comes back, ask him to start paying rent, utilities and grocery. Aita333645_ / 2 1.1k points · 20 hours ago I contacted the company's number. Hopefully my interview will be re-scheduled. I explained my situation and it might take time.

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