Girlfriend Outraged Over Her Man Giving Female Friend A Ride During Medical Emergency

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Sep 8, 2021 2:00 PM EDT

If it's not your first time on the rodeo, then you know relationships are complicated. Jealousy is often an issue that comes up, but people seriously need to learn how to trust their significant others (unless there have been acts of cheating in the past). On Reddit's infamous "Am I The A**hole?" subreddit, a Redditor told a quick tale about how her friend's boyfriend gave her a ride because her brother with a health condition needed his meds STAT. When she got back, however, the guy's girlfriend was upset that the two were alone in a car together because they dated once upon a time. The GF is obvs super insecure, and should probably discuss this with her BF instead of taking it out on her friend, in my humble opinion. Scroll down for what Redditors had to say about this drama. 

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    Font - r/AmItheAsshole Posted by u/throwawayact8x 4 hours ago AITA for having my friends boyfriend give me a ride? Background: Me (25F) and Abby (28F) have been friends for about a year. We've known each other much longer through mutual friends but have only had a separate relationship for this past year. She is currently dating Sam (33M). Me and Sam dated briefly three years ago and it ended really bad but he's been a part of my friend group for a while and we've since made amends, within the p
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    From the get-go, this seems like a healthy friend group. Dating someone in a group of friends can be a risk, but this woman is handling it with grace. It doesn't exactly sound like her friend is handling it so well though. Read on for more context. 

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    Font - When we got back, Abby had left and I was told she was very upset. I reached out to her and she said she felt really angry I'd go with her boyfriend to get the meds and we were alone together. I explained I was really scared for my brother and wasn't thinking straight, I just really wanted to get his meds. I also apologized and reassured her nothing happened at all. I told her I asked everyone if they'd drive me and everyone else had been W drinking. She said because Sam and I have a hist
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    This girl needs to chill TF out. The only person who should be freaking out here is the brother, as he's the one who had the medical emergency. To me, it's abundantly clear who's in the wrong, and the Redditors who commented on the thread agree. 

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    Font - ParsimoniousSalad · 3h Asshole Enthusiast [6] Your brother was ill and needed his medicine, but your "friend" Abby is so insecure that you should let him suffer for hours waiting for someone else to sober up because you and Sam can clearly not control yourselves being in the same car together while fetching the medicine? Wow. You are NTA. Abby's got some serious problems in her relationship if she has so little trust. Her issue is really with Sam, but she's lashing out at you because it's
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    Rectangle - Careless_Mango · 3h NTA is she 12? If she can't trust him driving another woman or ex then she can't trust him full stop and that has nothing to do with you. She is angry at the wrong person and her boyfriend should be upset if she brings this up.
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    Mammal - TheGamingButternut · 3h NTA. While you two have history together (and that fact clearly makes her uncomfortable) you needed to get your brother's meds and that was your only option. Hopefully she comes around and sees that she's just being distrustful of her friend and boyfriend.
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    Font - 7thatsanope · 3h Partassipant [1] Abby is being ridiculous. She must not think very much of you as a friend or Sam as a boyfriend to not be able to trust either one of you. It was a medical emergency, FFS. NTA
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    Rectangle - seeyaintherapy · 3h Partassipant [1] NTA. And I'm wondering what kinda AH Abby is that she would rather your brother lay ill and begging for medication than have her bf help you. People who have insecurities like this should not date around their friend group. Outrageous.
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    Eye - X9AP · 3h NTA. She is Not a good friend. She can't recognise the seriousness of the situation. Maybe you can rethink this friendship.
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    Rectangle - QuestBear · 1h NTA. Your friend is not your friend. Cut her out of your life immediately. If your friend is going to react like this over a life and death situation, then you do need to cut that toxic cancer out quickly. Bye girl bye. Same with all the other friends in your circle that agree with her.
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    Font - cutelilpuff · 31m NTA and also "wait for someone to sober up" I hate that kinda shit, if you're drinking you shouldn't drive until you've gone to sleep through the night, you were being responsible and were worried for your brother. Not your fault that she's insecure and this is also something she should talk to her bf about tbh
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    Hair - Mornyt15 · 26m Nope. NTA. Your brother needed his meds. I'd let my worse enemy drive me home if it meant I can ease his suffering. You did the right thing. Sam did the right thing because he's sober and wanted to help out.
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    Font - Whowhatnowhuhwhat · 3h Certified Proctologist [21] She should've offered to come to if she cared at all and was worried
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