Woman Steals Sister's Boyfriend, Marries Him, Sibling Won't Attend Wedding

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mattstaff
Jun 20, 2021 9:00 AM EDT

Um, this family dynamic sounds absolutely disastrous. Like, we're talking right out of one of those painful reality shows. What kind of person has the audacity to steal their sibling's partner, marry them, and then throw a temper tantrum when their sibling doesn't want to attend the wedding? What did she expect? It sounds like someone's grown very comfortable living in their own little fantasy world. Yes, a fantasy world where she's blinded by such a thick haze of self-concerned narcissism that she's completely detached herself from her moral compass. 

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    Font - 25 9 23 1 3 22 34 AITA for refusing to attend my sisters wedding. My eldest sister Mia has always been the golden child and my elder sister Ashley is the forgotten middle child. Now two years ago Ashley's boyfriend cheated on her with Mia, this caused a drift in our family which left me and Ashley cutting ties off from Mia. Now in these two years majority of family forgave her and are in contact with her and also have accepted their relationship whereas I have still not forgave her becaus
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    Font - Now yesterday I got a call from Mia inviting me for her wedding which is next month to which I said 'I wont be coming but I wish you the best'. To which she got mad and asked the reason so I reminded that the person she is marrying is my sister's ex whom you stole from her. She said that it was two years ago and I must forget about it and move forward, I didnt wanted any further conversation so I just hung up. Later my dad called me and told me that Mia called him crying and told what had
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    Font - Ashley said that she wont mind if I go but I know she felt a sense of relied when I told her what had happen and I think I am the only one on Ashley's side. | Growing up I was treated a bit better than Ashley since I am their only son but not as close to Mia, she was everyone's princess. From what I have known Mia never reached out and apologized to Ashley. Also she didnt even invite Ashley. 12k 3 960 |↑, Share
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    Font - Status-Pattern7539 · 12h Partassipant [3] 3 1 Award NTA. You can't be forced to go to an event you don't want to go to. "I said no. Sister should have thought about the consequences of her actions and I do not support a marriage based on infidelity." If they continues just say you didn't realise they wanted someone there to actually 'object' midway through the Vows... G Reply 3.9k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - DaLoCo6913• 11h NTA. Take Ashley away for a weekend on the wedding date, have a blast and post lots of pictures. Until Ashley is ready, you support her. 6 Reply 4 2.3k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - 2 Awards NTA. Somethings that always needs to be asked in the "You need to move on" situations. "What have they done to earn forgiveness?" O 6 Reply ↑ 1.7k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Philaleche · 12h Partassipant [1] NTA Good on you to show solidarity with your sister. G Reply 4 544 +
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    Rectangle - breysbanatomy · 12h NTA. She extended an invitation, and you respectfully declined. G Reply 1 453 ...
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    Font - NTA. she didnt even invite Ashley While it would arguably be crueler if she had, they can't really complain about you not being there when they're already going to have to explain the absence of one sibling. Tell the family it's not up for discussion, and put them in communications time out if they still won't drop it. G Reply 4 372 3 ...
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    Rectangle - NTA. No reason to attend the wedding of someone you have no contact with. And no reason to have contact with someone who so willingly hurt your sister as much as Mia and her future husband did. you can, go on some trip or dinner with Ashley. G Reply 1 191 If ...
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    Font - SaronJarce · 12h NTA if your relationship was formed by destroying another person's and betraying a family member in a deeply personal way you don't get to demand they be fine with it and support you. G Reply 93 3 +
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    Font - dontcareatall12345 · 12h NTA, block them. Good on you for choosing Ashley's side! G Reply 1 68 3 ...
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    Font - highwoodshady · 11h Colo-rectal Surgeon [40] NTA, if you don't want to go to the wedding for whatever reason don't go. Your parents probably are pressuring you because they are afraid of having to field questions from friends and family about why you and Ashley are no shows. Can you imagine the conversation, long story short he hooked up with Mia while dating Ashley and their are some hard feelings. G Reply 4 41 ♡ ...
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    Font - nosborne85 · 11h NTA - why isn't it also an issue with your parents that Ashley was not even invited??!I get it's the ex and blah blah but it's your sister extend the invite and if she decides not to go then it's understandable since you're a pill and stole her BF. Don't go, your sister sounds awful and tell your parents they have 3 children not just 1. A G Reply ↑ 34 3 ... +
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    Rectangle - lectricpharaoh • 11h Partassipant [1] NTA. You're not obligated to go to family events, particularly if the family event in question is a constant reminder of one family member betraying another. G Reply 1 21 3 ...
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    Font - DogsAreMyDawgs · 11h Partassipant [3] NTA - keep being the only one with the balls to stick up for Ashley. The rest of the fam is terrible. G Reply 4 17 3
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    Font - NTA - Good for you for holding yourself ground on this. People love to say that family should be forgiven for everything. It's ridiculous. G Reply 4 15 3 ...
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    Mammal - NTA. You don't stand behind their marriage, so there's no point in you going. Your parents and extended family may have forgiven Mia, but you're not on their timeline. When and if you decide to renew your relationship with your sister is up to you. G Reply 4 14 3 ...
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    Rectangle - Cherrygrove-elk · 10h Partassipant [1] NTA Princess Mia should know her actions have consequences and now it's coming back to bite her in the booty! G Reply ...
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