Woman Calls Her Sister A 'Homerecker' When Her Therapist Leaves His Wife For Her

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    Font - Posted by u/Mysisterissue 8 hours ago AITA For not going to my sisters wedding because she got with her fiancé when he was in a relationship?
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    Font - My sister Leah is getting married to her fiancé Jason in October. They met in a really inappropriate way...Leah had gotten out of an abusive relationship and went to therapy. Her therapist was Jason and they began a relationship even though he had a long term girlfriend named Ashley.
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    Font - Jason broke up with Ashley and is now getting married to my sister. Leah and Jason invited me and I declined. Leah called and asked why I said no and I told her that she's essentially a home wrecker and her and Jason won't work out because he'll leave her for somebody else.
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    Font - They're marriage was built on lies and deceit. Leah started to cry and said she knows Jason won't leave her because they're both in love. To be fair he treats her very well and they seem happy, but I'm still not going and everyone in my family is mad at me. I reached out to Ashley and apologized to her on my sisters behaviour.
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    Font - ΑΙΤΑ? EDIT-I talked to Ashley and she said her and Jason were doing amazing and this came out of nowhere. They didn't believe in marriage or kids so she's baffled why he's getting married and wanting to have kids with Leah. Ashley is heartbroken and I want to meet up with her for coffee.
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    OP provided a possible reason she could be in the wrong here

    Rectangle - I'm not going to my sister wedding because I don't like her fiancé.
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    Font - kaceymckenonne · 8h · edited 50m Asshole Enthusiast [7] First of all... Your sister isn't the guilty one here at all. A therapist is never supposed to go after one of their own patients. That is not appropriate. *Edited to add judgement ESH... The sister/patient and his ex are victims.
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    Font - JeepersCreepers74 · 8h O 3 Commander in Cheeks [213] Good gosh, YTA. If you're going to refuse to support this marriage, at least do it on the grounds that therapist Jason shouldn't have dated his client, not because your sister is a "home wrecker."
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    Font - Obiterdicta · 8h · edited 8h Craptain [172] YTA, not for not supporting the marriage but the reason why. I'd be more concerned about whether Leah is in a safe, healthy relationship. A therapist starting a relationship with a patient is a huge abuse of power.
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    Font - Noctisv020 · 8h · edited 8h I hope Jason lost his license and is no longer a therapist. If not, someone should report him. It is inappropriate for him to date his client. It creates a power imbalance. Jason is more at fault. He took advantage of your sister.
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    Font - ConsciousCard · 8h Colo-rectal Surgeon [40] YTA - you went way too far by reaching out to a stranger to discuss her failed marriage. That was absolutely none of your business, and unless you are Jason or Ashley you actually have no idea what went on in their relationship or why they broke up.
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    Font - RVFullTime · 8h Colo-rectal Surgeon [30] NTA It's unethical for a therapist to become sexually and/or romantically involved with their client, or even with anyone closely associated with their client. (This applies even when both parties are single.)
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    Font - Special-Attitude-242 · 8h Asshole Enthusiast [5] ESH. Mostly Jason. It's illegal to carry on a relationship with a patient for a reason. He should have sent her elsewhere for therapy.

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