Bride Calls Mother-In-Law Pathetic For Wearing White On Wedding Day

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Aug 10, 2021 12:00 PM EDT

The moral judges of Reddit's AITA community were not forgiving in the comments section on this one. It sounds like this bride displayed a deeply troubling lack of empathy and understanding when it came to her mother-in-law choosing to sport white on wedding day. 

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    Font - AITA for calling my MIL pathetic for wearing a white dress on my wedding day, though she didn't come to the wedding? MIL was invited to our wedding but chose not to come, because she couldn't pick her color first (mother of the bride picks first) and then she decided to go no contact with us. This is not out of character. She has literally always been like this, plus my mom teased her a little over the color and MIL lost her sl t.
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    Font - MIL is slightly back in contact with us. She still isn't speaking to us, but has let up enough to be in the same room. the other day we were at a family gathering and SIL called MIL out on partying in Vegas when she was supposed to be at our wedding. MIL denied it and said she was at home sleeping, so SIL pulled out the instagram proof. MIL posted a bunch of pics with her boyfriend in Vegas and she was wearing a white cocktail dress. I just felt like white was a random color if she wasn't
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    Font - Her boyfriend claims it is normal to have a white cocktail dress and I'm just pasty and ugly. At that point my husband lost his sl t and said I was right, she was pathetic and trying to feel like a bride. MIL left but MIL's mom started to cry and said we were bullying her daughter for no reason. That hurt because I used to like MIL's mom, but she has changed lately and been so far up MIL's a s and she now only cooks food for MIL's boyfriend because she likes his job. My husband said he wa
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    Rectangle - HeatherKiwi · 21h INFO: Why on earth does it matter what she was wearing if she wasn't at your wedding? Lots of people wear white everyday especially for formal-ish events such as going out. G Reply 519 3 ...
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    Rectangle - 7-11-21-Luck · 21h Partassipant [4] YTA. She wasn't at the wedding & you still made a big deal about a white dress? That's pathetic. The whole idea of "nobody can wear white on the day of my wedding" it's pathetic. Must be miserable 5 Reply 4 1.3k 3
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    Font - AlphaQueen3· 21h YTA. She wasn't trying to draw attention away from the bride by wearing a bridal gown to a wedding.. She literally wasn't even AT the wedding. Who cares what she wore? Why would you make a joke at the expense of someone who is barely speaking to you? (even if that reason sounds petty af, to be fair). G Reply 4 424 3 ...
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    Font - mm172 · 21h Judge, Jury, and Excretioner [377] YTA. People are allowed to not go to your wedding, even if they're the mother of the groom and you think their reasons are stupid. You don't get to control what they do once they've told you they're not coming, let alone what they decide to wear. Honestly, though, this isn't the first post someone has made about a mother-in-law insisting on wearing a white Vegas-style cocktail dress and everyone trading childish insults with each other, which
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    Font - 1BBumble1 · 20h So, I'm gonna assume every woman who happened to wear white on your wedding day is gonna be tracked down for it. She didn't even attend the wedding so you're making a big deal out of nothing. YTA G Reply 1 17 3 ...
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    Rectangle - strandedinaber · 21h Partassipant [3] YTA. A white cocktail dress is pretty common and she wasn't even there. G Reply 4 45 3 ...
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    Font - Yup, YTA. You actually sound awful. I have a feeling karma is coming for you. É 6 Reply ↑ 59 3 ...
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    Human body - elationonceagain · 21h YTA. You don't sound old enough to be married. G Reply 4 41 3 ...
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    Rectangle - YTA. She wasn't at your wedding. You sound immature and petty. 6 Reply 4 16 3 ...
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