'Vegan' Eats Non-Vegan Dishes At Dinner Party After Host Cooks Meals Especially For Him

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abbyadler
Jan 9, 2022 4:00 PM EST

It's common courtesy to ask people about any food restrictions before inviting them over for dinner. In today's 'Am I The A$$hole?' post, OP went above and beyond for a vegan attending her meal. She made meat dishes for the non-vegans at the meal and made vegan dishes especially for him so that everyone would be included. However, the vegan guest ended up eating the non-vegan options anyways. We don't know about you, but our confusion immediately intensified. After preparing food for him that he didn't touch, OP was rightfully pissed. Scroll down for all the dinner party drama. 

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    Font - Font - r/AmItheAsshole · Posted by u/myredditusername28 2 hours ago AITA for getting annoyed with my friends vegan boyfriend? On Sunday, my friend and her boyfriend came over for a roast dinner. (Roast Dinner for those outside the UK is beef, Yorkshire Puddings, roast potatoes, veg and gravy.)
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    Font - Font - My friend's boyfriend is a vegan, and I thought this would be a fun challenge. Making a roast is a lot of work, but I didn't want meat eaters to miss out for one vegan, so I made two completely different dinners.
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    Font - Human body - I researched the best possible way to make a vegan version that's still yummy for him. I spent a fortune on the vegan alternatives, didn't mind as I invited them over and was game for a new cooking challenge.
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    Font - Product - Anyway, I served the dinners feeling pretty proud of myself, and the boyfriend didn't even mention the meal, just said thanks at the end. I was a little bit miffed he overlooked the work I put into his dinner but whatever.
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    Font - Font - Anyway, made a non-vegan and vegan dessert, a large crème brûlée and for him, a chocolate pudding thing that was vegan. I also had chocolates out etc., which were not vegan and offered coffees.
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    Font - The boyfriend asked for a coffee with regular milk as he fancied "a treat"... I must have pulled a face, no way that I didn't and said, "ok." I'm pissed off at this point, considering the effort I went for respecting his diet requirements.
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    Rectangle - I return with coffees, and he is scoffing my part of the crème brûlée, leaving me with his vegan dessert. I said, "that wasn't vegan", and he went ", eh, doesn't matter."
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    Font - I kind of lost my s: it and pointed out how rude it was it him to ask for his dinner to be 100% vegan, as far as not cooking potatoes in certain things and how I went above and beyond trying to make his meal pleasant for him to throw it in my face.
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    Font - He laughed and said, "chill, not that big of a deal." Anyway, he thinks I'm a huge AH, and his GF/my friend is conflicted and in an awkward position. If I've been the AH, I would apologise to clear the air for my friend, but I feel that he should.
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    Font - Odd_Meet_8632 · 2h · edited 2h 3 Certified Proctologist [23] NTA, I said, "that wasn't vegan", and he went “, eh, doesn't matter. "So he is only vegan when it benefits him? And if it doesn't he will just eat non vegan food? wtf? He made you do all the work for nothing + he stole your desert
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    Font - djcelts · 11m Call the Vegan Police and get his powers taken away
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    Font - AlphaQueen3 · 2h Partassipant [1] NTA. Of course it's not a big deal to him you did all the work! You don't get to pretend you're vegan just to get everyone to turn make you special food and then just eat the regular food, that's obnoxious.
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    Font - 8bitevil · 2h NTA - i'm vegan and i would never expect anyone to go out of their way to make me a special vegan dish, not to mention an entire vegan meal. in fact, i usually bring my own food to these types of get-togethers. if someone DID take the time to research, purchase, and prepare this sort of meal for me, i think i would cry in shock and appreciation.
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    Font - BlurpleBeanie · 2h NTA. He's not on a strict vegan diet and should've went over that with you. Vegan alternative are very pricey and hard to incorporate it your not used to it. Good on you for trying though.
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    Font - 5thPLL · 2h Asshole Enthusiast [7] NTA - "Chill, not that big of a deal." Uhhhh. I would have thrown bacon strips at him for that comment alone. I cannot get over the cheek of expecting and entirely separate meal, then deviating from his "diet" in your face, then stealing your food.
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