Sister Refuses To Take In Bro, His GF And Future Baby, They Accuse Her of Forcing Them To Get Abortion

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LiterallyLily17
Nov 24, 2021 2:30 PM EST

The OP in this story is being accused of something ridiculous. No one should ever 'force' anyone to have an abortion. It also seems physically impossible. But the OP's brother claims that his sister is forcing him and his girlfriend to terminate their pregnancy because she won't let them raise the baby in HER house. She never agreed to be a stay-at-home aunt or a roof for their newborn baby. But suddenly she is the bag guy for kicking them out. Some say she is setting boundaries while other say she is kicking her poor brother to the curb. Only you and the moral judges of Reddit can decide. 

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    Font - Posted by u/Nlwile3f 8 hours ago AITA for "forcing my brother and his GF to get an abortion"?
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    Font - So I'm a 24 year old who moved out of their parents place a couple years back. My parents are terrible people and we're very cruel to me and my brother growing up. I've very much enjoyed the space to myself and it has been the only time in my life I've truly felt safe.
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    Font - My twin brother (Zack ) didn't move out and was also pretty miserable living with my parents. About 8 months ago he asked if he and his GF (Kat) could stay with me for a while, as he started school a couple years
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  • 04
    Font - after me and isn't financially in a place where he can afford his own place. Knowing how shitty my parents are, and how much of a good guy and gal Zack and Kat are it really wasn't much of a decision. I just told them to chip
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    Font - in when they can and as long as I'm not paying for their food or anything like that it's chill for the time being.
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  • 06
    Font - Things have been fine and Zack and Kat have been nothing but respectful to me and my place. The place is on the smaller side but Zack is usually at school or work and Kat works a good amount of the time, so I'm not
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  • 07
    Font - usually super bothered by it. Their plan has been to love out once Zack graduates which will probably be 2023 at the rate he's going. So I'd most likely be living with them another year and a half to two years.
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    Font - Now that wasnt much of an issue to me as they don't really have anywhere to go and I totally get not wanting move back in with out parents. The thing is tho is about a week back they revealed to me they were pregnant. While I think it's
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  • 09
    Font - awesome, and am excited for them, this severely throws a wrench into out living arrangement. I really can't deal with a baby living with us for the extended future. I'm someone who's very sensitive to noises and suffers insomnia. So a crying baby would literally make my life hell on Earth.
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    Font - When I asked them what they were planning on doing they said they were going to keep it as Kat doesn't believe in abortion and they feel as if they'd make good parents ( they definitely would, they're great people). I said oh well congrats then! We ended the conversation there for that night.
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    Font - The next day I asked them what their plans were for housing in the near future as they know about my sleeping condition and how I'd feel with a baby/toddler in the house. They said theyd have to stay here as they didn't really have anywhere else to go. I told them that won't be
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  • 12
    Font - happening for reasons stated earlier. They both got very upset and accused me of "forcing them to abort their baby" TLDR: AITA for not allowing my brother and his GF to continue living with me if they have a baby?
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    Font - Mads_w02 · 8h Partassipant [1] NTA that's their problem. You've stated your boundaries clearly and if that doesn't match up with her beliefs then they can find another way to manage. You didn't sign up to living with their kid
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    Font - Nemo9797· 6h This sounds like a super manipulative thing for them to say: give us what we want or you are FORCING us to do this other thing. Thats not how any of this works.
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