Man Accuses GF Of 'Ruining His B-Day" When She Announces Her Pregnancy At His Party

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Dec 18, 2021 4:00 PM EST

Finding out you are pregnant is a big deal. Either you've been trying and just got the blessed news that you don't have to try anymore, or it's a surprise and you have some serious decisions to make. Either way, it's a lot of information take and pretty hard to keep to yourself. Also, getting pregnant usually involves two people, so if you're in touch with your partner, it's probably difficult to hold back from telling them the big news.

This woman couldn't help but share her excitement with her boyfriend at his birthday party, and his reaction was quite the opposite. Who do you think is in the wrong here?

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  • 01
    Font - Posted by u/maddybirdy 16 hours ago O 4 3 S 5 + AITA for ruining my boyfriends birthday party?
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    Font - My boyfriend just turned 30 on wednesday and had a big party to celebrate it. I hadn't been feeling well the last couple weeks leading up to it but I was determined to make his birthday a great one. Due to my job and financial reasons, I haven't been able to take many days off so I scheduled a doctors appointment the morning of his birthday so I could celebrate in the evening. I found out I was pregnant during the appointment and was ecstatic.
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    Font - We've been trying for a baby for six years and I thought this would be the perfect present for him. When I got home, there were a few people already there for the party. I asked my boyfriend if we could speak in private and he ignored me. I asked again and he told me that if it was so important I could wait five minutes while he talked to his friend.
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    Font - So I just told him. He got extremely mad and started yelling in my face about how I was trying to ruin his day and that today was supposed to be about him and not me. He told all the people there to leave and messaged everybody else to not come because I ruined the day. He then stormed out the house and still hasn't come back.
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  • 05
    Font - I'm still so shocked and confused. He was so excited to try for a baby but his reaction made no sense. My mom said that while it is a great surprise I probably should have waited as it was his day. So AITA?
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: I told my boyfriend that I was pregnant at his birthday party. I understand that might make me the asshole because his birthday was all about him and me saying I'm pregnant might make people talk or ask about me more.
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    Product - NobodysBabyDaddy Partassipant [2] NTA at all. Good luck raising 2 children.
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    Font - KanishkT123 · 16 hr. ago Partassipant [4] NTA. First, he ruined his own birthday by being an asshole. Second, are you sure you want a kid with this guy? I'm not sure what the rest of your relationship is like but he shouted at you after you told him you were pregnant and after you'd been sick for a couple weeks. That's a red flag.
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    Font - Mayotroll - 16 hr. ago His reaction is highly suspect. You two need to have a frank conversation about where you wanna go from here. I suspect you're not communicating properly
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  • 10
    Font - Bread1975 · 16 hr. ago "He was so excited to try for a baby ..." Trying and doing are two different things. Apparently, he is not so enthused about the doing part. NTA.
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    Human body - AdministrativeCod666 · 16 hr. ago I mean I don't understand why you couldn't just wait but his reaction is so over the top.
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    Organism - ghostforest · 16 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [20] NTA. Do not have a baby with this man. He should have been thrilled and instead he was cruel and disrespectful to you. He's showing you who he really is. A man who really wanted a child would think your news was the greatest gift he could receive on any day, but especially on his birthday. Instead he acted like a mean, selfish, rude child.
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    Font - SalaciousSapphic · 16 hr. ago Certified Proctologist [29] NTA. I don't care what kind of big day it was. Anyone who yells at you when you tell them you're pregnant is a walking red flag.
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