Woman’s Family Turns Against Her After She Causes Her Aunt To Get Divorced

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Dec 21, 2021 11:30 AM EST

There is nothing recipe for the perfect marriage. You might think there are the basic things that are crucial, such as love, communication, and trust, but we all know that there are plenty of marriages that seriously lack 1 to 3 of those things. The divorce rate speaks for itself. I think the major shift in social discourse is more relating to people's biggest fears in marriages. People used to be terrified of getting divorced, and now people are more fearful of settling for someone who disrespects them.

This woman realized that she had indeed settled, and there is no going back after that realization takes place. Do you think it was fair for her niece to bring her to that place?

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    Font - r/AmltheAsshole u/Mikeyhii • 9h 3 6 2 6 e 7 AITA for causing my aunt to divorce her husband?
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    Font - My (19 F) aunt (43 F) and I were talking casually about odd and end house chores. I said something about my boyfriend (26 M) doing the dishes and vacuuming that night. My aunt asked me why I was forcing him to do my work. I said that I wasn't, and that we split household chores depending on who is feeling like doing what that day. She said that l'm treating him more like a roommate than a partner and that I'm supposed to clean, cook, ect. For him. I said that I didn't feel like that's a h
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    Font - . She mentioned that her husband wouldn't do anything for himself and that she felt it was unfair that she had to do everything. I told her that she should hold him accountable and that it's the bare minimum he could do. Well...
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    Font - about a month later she filed for divorce, and her husband called me to let me know. He said that I caused her to start thinking like "a snowflake" and that if I don't believe in traditional relationships I should keep it to myself. I asked what he was talking about. Apparently what I said made her reconsider the relationship and she decided she wanted to be with someone who wasn't such a man child. My mom, grandma, and other aunts all think that l'm an asshole for breaking up a "wonderfu
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    Font - Edit: I feel like I should mention that there are no children, unfortunately my aunt has severe issues with fertility and has been pregnant 3 times with this man but lost them. He was not supportive during that time. 4.4k 420 T, Share
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    Font - OP has offered the following explanation for why they think they might be the asshole: 1.1 told my aunt that her husband wasn't doing enough and that he should confront her. 2) my whole family thinks that I am the asshole and I am just curious if l'm that oblivious.
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    Font - Brave_Hat34·9h Partassipant [1] S 1 Award NTA, turns out it really wasn't a "wonderful" marriage for your aunt, just for the ex husband G Reply 4 5.6k 3 ...
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    Font - kolorahl • 9h Partassipant [4] The number of people taking his side in your family is horrific. You need to keep your healthy mindset on relationships, don't let anyone tell you otherwise. You did your aunt a solid. NTA 6 Reply 1 2.3k 3 ...
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    Rectangle - caz_z• 9h Partassipant [2] NTA. Poor woman was already unhappy. She saw you - happy, fulfilled in a relationship - and decided she deserved that, too. Good for her! Go get her a drink to celebrate! G Reply 786 ...
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    Font - Nikke967 · 8h 31 Award Anyone thinking you talking about sharing chores in a healthy relationship broke their marriage is delusional NTA G Reply 1 423 3 ...
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    Font - SimplySam4210 · 8h Asshole Aficionado [13] HAHA. NTA in the slightest. She already had these thoughts in her head. You just confirmed them. And honestly, your confirmation was what she was looking for. I'll never forget the moment when I was 24 years old and my father demanded that my mother get him some iced tea. You could see this light go on inside of her and she said, "You don't look injured." The look of abject horror on his face will make me laugh for the rest of my life. G Reply 1
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    Font - nanananannooo • 9h NTA. Your aunt clearly wasn't happy in her marriage, and you explained your arrangement with your boyfriend and your views. At no point did you tell them a divorce would be the solution. I got nothing against more traditional marriage dynamics or SAHMS, but if someone in the arrangement is unhappy, then it obviously isn't for them. They definitely didn't have a "wonderful" marriage. G Reply 1 105 3 ...
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