Mom Attempts To Steal From Daughter's College Fund And Has The Audacity To Ask Ex-Husband For Favors

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LiterallyLily17
Jan 12, 2022 12:00 PM EST

This is another sad tale of exes coming after for each other 'for the sake of their child." OP is a now single dad trying to do what's right. He has a college fund set up for his 13 year old daughter. He used to be cordial with his ex wife until she started dating a new man who is a fight instigator. OP's ex-wife and new man lost their jobs. That is tough and leads to financial hardship for sure. But the ex-wife went too far by trying to take out $10,000 from their daughters college bank account. Keep reading to see what happens next. 

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    Font - AITA For Refusing To Help My Ex Discipline Our Daughter?
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    Font - I (41m) have a 13 year-old daughter "Mandy" with my ex-wife "Jane" (37f). I would say post-divorce we had a decent relationship and were cordial for our daughter's sake but everything changed they day Jane started dating her current husband "Tom" (47m). I guess she needed to prove to him that she was over me by becoming hostile because I for the life of me can't explain what
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    Font - else could be the reason for her becoming so angry and refusing to follow the custody agreement anymore. Because of my job at the time she had primary custody but I was supposed to get every other weekend and summers while we alternated Holidays. I had to take my ex to court twice and was just grateful that former-MIL was on my side and wouldn't allow Jane to feed Mandy lies about me. I tried to be patient and forgiving in
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    Organism - the beginning but eventually Jane pushed me too far and now I just handle her with cold aloofness and documenting as much as I can when interacting with her. During the pandemic Tom and Jane lost their respective jobs and were in danger of loosing the house. Jane took me to court for
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    Font - more child support which I wasn't going to fight but was mad when she didn't get as much as she wanted. After the decree I started getting suspicious because Jane and I have equal access to Mandy's college fund so I decided to add-in special protections and alerts. I'm the primary on the account and Jane was just an Authorized-Signer.
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    Organism - Unfortunately my suspicions were confirmed and I received a call from the bank about an attempt to take out $10,000. It was Jane, and I was pissed. So pissed that I went to Jane's place and yelled and cursed at her. I knew Mandy was out at the time so I thought I was in the clear but didn't realize when she and my former-MIL pulled up to the driveway. Mandy didn't hear everything but she
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    Head - did learn about what her mom tried to do. Mandy is now upset and acting out and when Jane tries to discipline her Mandy counters that she'll just live with me and loose the child support Jane and Tom desperately need.
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    Font - Jane is now asking me to help her put up a "united front" but after what she did I'm not looking into doing her any favors. However, my MIL thinks that by allowing Mandy to play us against each other it will end up hurting her. AITA?
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    Font - BabY_pot4to · 7 hr. ago NTA, but go get your daughter out of there, she is old enough now that court will considered her request with whom she wants to live and you have proof of the shady things your ex tried to do with your daughters money. And if you tell the truth I bet your daughter isn't seeing much of HER child support. You pay that money to be used for your daughter not the live of to adults that steal from their child. 3.2k Reply Share Report Save Follow
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    Font - H_E_Pennypacker 17 min. ago YTA, you're sabotaging your ex's parenting by doing this and that is not good for your daughter. Your ex sounds like a bad parent and you should take them back to court about the college fund withdrawal attempt and try to get more time with the kid. Vote Reply Share Report Save Follow
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