Bride's Sister-In-Law Rudely Reveals That The Whole Family Had A Terrible Time At The Wedding

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Apr 26, 2022 2:30 PM EDT

Weddings are supposed to be when families and friends come together to celebrate the union of two beautiful people in love. We want to highlight the term 'celebration' because that's what weddings are about. If you're not the bride and groom, then it's not about you. Way too many people seem to think they should be the star of someone else's wedding planning, and they simply cannot get it through their thick skulls that if someone wanted their unwarranted opinion, they would ask. In today's 'Am I the A$$hole?' post, OP seems to be one of the people that think someone else's wedding is all about them. OP is the sister of the groom, who decided with his bride that they want to have a K-Pop theme wedding even though their families are Balkan. The bride had a blast and couldn't stop talking about how much fun as had (as she should), and OP felt it was her duty to let her know that their family didn't enjoy it at all. Some things are better left unsaid. Scroll down for all the dramatic details. 

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    Product - r/AmItheAsshole Posted by u/WestImpossible6901 10 hours ago AITA for telling my brother's wife that their wedding was not that good?
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    There's literally no reason she had to tell them her thoughts. Nobody asked, OP. 

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    Font - My brother and his wife got married two weeks ago. His wife is one of those people who love kpop and as you guessed, much of the music in the wedding involved kpop. We come from traditional balkan families (both sides) and we expected some traditions to be honored, traditional music, foods, practices. My brother didn't care about all that and his wife was completely against it as well. We barely danced any traditional dances at all.
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    It's their wedding, therefore it's up to them. 

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    Font - Despite that our side of the family tried to make the most out of it and we tried to have fun. The bride's family on the other hand was boring. They were very snobbish barely getting up to interact with people as if they were better than everyone.
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    Font - They did have fun with their friends as they said but family wise the wedding was a disaster for the rest of us and not enjoyable in the slightest.
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    Font - My sil kept bragging about how perfect her wedding was and how much fun she had. Anyone could hear that and think it was the event of the year. I just couldn't stand her making a fool of herself and I decided to be honest. And I told her "hey, since nobody's going to be honest with you I will be. The wedding was not that good or special. It was different but not in a good way. Stop going around bragging about your successful wedding planning when both families dreaded every second of it.
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    Font - My brother cursed me out and told me I was out of line and demanded I apologise. I said I'm not apologising for my honest opinion. His wife then tried to defend her stance by saying how much fun she had, my brother had and how her friends adored it and said its the best wedding they've attended. I told her that they should attend one of those kpop events then not plan a wedding.
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    Font - I realised I might have been out of line after my mom called me to scold me for saying those words. She said I was right but it's not something I should say out loud and hurt people's feelings. I tried to tell her I was just trying to be honest because nobody else would and everyone just let her make a fool of herself.
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    Font - macaroniandmilk · 6 hr. ago ( Partassipant [1] I look forward to the day where as a society we learn that "I was just being honest" or "It's just my opinion" are not excuses to say whatever you want without repercussions. Being honest or giving your opinion (especially when it's negative) when no one asked for it is just being mean. It's okay to have an opinion, and then lock it up inside your head. And honesty isn't a virtue when it's done with the intention to hurt.
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    Rectangle - lihzee · 10 hr. ago 2 Craptain [157] YTA. She enjoyed her wedding, that's what is important. You sound incredibly rude. She wasn't making a fool out of herself, grow up.
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    Font - Littleballoffur22 · 7 hr. ago Partassipant [1] Exactly. The only one who embarrassed themselves is OP and their big mouth. YTA
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  • 11
    Font - PookSpeak · 6 hr. ago kinda like "I'm not racist... but" YTA OP not your wedding, not your business. like someone above said: "grow up!"
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    Font - Shavasara · 6 hr. ago Notice how those who take pride in "just being honest" or "telling it like it is" never have anything good to say.
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